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Is she really a friend?

My recent exgf and I are trying to be friends, but it seems I’m doing everything to make it work. She’s busy with a new bf having little time to call me for a 20 minutes conversation.I’ve given her friendly flowers, made her dinner, sent ecards, regular cards,email, done large favors for her, and still listen to her complain (always), and it’ me making most of the calls… I’ve done all this and she has not returned any of it. She’s the one who wanted to remain friends, for nothing to change between us other than the titles and sex, and if this all her idea why I am the only one working towards it. I’m really beginning to give two shits about her and wishing I didn’t have realize that she’s horrible with the way she threats me. I can’t have another friendship where I’m walked on, and why is it that even with someone who I really thought I knew it still happens.I’m done with her "sorrys"and "I wont do it agains". If she wants to be my friend, she’ll have to find a way to prove it to me.

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get him back, keep him, stop ur divorce…. books, what do u think about this kind of books?

there many many many books about this kind of things, u know like how to get your man back, how to stop your break up or divorce, and i was wondering if someone acutally have read any of this, if they work, if they’re just crap…. or just your opinion about it

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How do I break up with my long distance boyfriend?

It’s Summer (obviously) and I want to break up with my boyfriend. The problem is I want to do it to his face. Not over text or on the phone. The only way I can think of that is if we go on a date but It’d be kinda wierd going on a date (which would only be onr second) and then dumping him. How should I do this? And btw we’re both only 14 we cant drive.

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Does she still love me?

It’s been almost three months since my exgf broke up with me cos she was in love with some other guy from work during the school holidays and i’ve found out that since the day we split, she’s missed me a little a few times each day. She’s got a new bf but she misses me everyday. Plus, she’s not the type who misses her ex-bfs. I asked her once when we were together if she missed her other exes and she answered truthfully no. But in my case, she does. So what does it all mean? Does she still have feelings for me?

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Another stupid love question?

Basically I’m 15.There’s this guy in school that I never really cared for till last year.We worked together a lot for our class and after a while I started to develop feelings.He didn’t ask me to WinterFormal because of his exgf but we pretty much acted like we were there together.He asked me to get with him a few weeks after but I told him I wasn’t ready, mostly fear of finding out he’s not my "soulmate" (my parents met at 16 and loved each other everyday since)but even after that he still manages to make me smile and care for me.Sometimes I think he may care too much, but when he’s sad I can’t help but also be sad. He’s still there for me and everything,but what am I doing?I KNOW that I’m wasting my time on this.He can’t possibly be the guy that I will spend the rest of my life with(not because I can’t see myself with him, but because we’re too young to understand and we’ll grow apart or something like that).Basically all I’m asking is, how do I stop caring or is this love? or like?
Oh I’m not one of those girls that like a different guy every 10 sec. I’ve only liked three guys (including this one). I have a good balance of extra curric and I have a 4.0. But I can’t help thinking about stuff like this. just don’t know where to go. I have never had a boyfriend and I’ve always wondered… would it really be THAT bad to let go of a possibility of the love of your life? I

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any idea to save relationship ?

this is a long distance relationship.

1- he says "..i am very much about impermanence and temporary situations and circumstances…i do not mean that i want a temporary relationship with one-night stands and never seeing the person again" what does it mean then ?

2- he also said he wants to be with me but he doesnt want a permanent relationship with me like marriage/family life.

i would like to save the relaitonship, any ideas ?
is it just a bad period to bear or there is no hope ?
what does he want exactly ?

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What do you do when your ex boyfriend cheated on you with three other girls and your depressed about it?

I love my ex bf and he was my whole life and i want him back but i cant deal witth the cheating.. But i cant get over him and i just want him in my life again.. Whar do i do? I need help

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What is the best song to listen to after a breakup?

After a breakup you’re really mad at the other person and im wondering if anyone has a suggestion of a song that talks about how you don’t need the person, etc.

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My husband & his exgirl…?

My husbands exgf called his cell phone and he said "sorry you have the wrong number” and he hung up. Then she calls back and he doesnt answer it, so she leaves him a message. Why didnt he tell her hes married. She lives far away. My brother-in-law gave her his number. She called his old number and my brother-in-law talked to her and seen nothing wrong w/ giving out his number. So did he react w/o thinking or was he trying to hide something? And women would you be mad?
Too many great answers!

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How important is it to save your virginity until marriage?

im 16, still a virgin, encountered many fun oppertunities to give it up and…TURNED THEM DOWN. im just wondering is it worth it to save until marriage? because i dont want to have to regret it later if my marriage isnt going to work out and i ended up throwing my sexual experiences away as a teenager, especially know that jessica simpsons and nick lacheys marriage didnt work! so is it worth it?

"And i remember as a child, drinking milk, everyday, just bring a cow in and let me get up under it and drink some fresh milk, so i can be big and strong. Brocilli, give me all the brocilli and greens and spinich..my mother 5′9 and my father 5′3..now what the F$ck and i drinking milk for?! i could have been eatin lemon heads and baked beans all day!"
– Katt Williams

i dont want this to happen to me.