How do I break up with my long distance boyfriend?
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It’s Summer (obviously) and I want to break up with my boyfriend. The problem is I want to do it to his face. Not over text or on the phone. The only way I can think of that is if we go on a date but It’d be kinda wierd going on a date (which would only be onr second) and then dumping him. How should I do this? And btw we’re both only 14 we cant drive.
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It’s really difficult to break up with your boyfriend, and my friend Maria recently broke up with hers. I think it’s really sweet of you to want to do it straight to his face, rather than the more popular and much more hurtful way of texting or cell phone.
I’m sure you like your boyfriend a lot, and you need to tell him that. He obviously likes you, enough to take you out on a date! Tell him you really just want to be friends, and that it would be easier now that it’s summer to not have to focus on a relationship. Not that you want to go around and see other guys, but just because you want to relax and have a little less drama as of the moment. I’m sure there was controversy in your relationship to make you want to break up, or maybe you just weren’t feeling the spark anymore. That’s okay! Tell him that, but say it slowly, and delicately. It’ll hurt less if you do.
I’m sure you must feel very awkward after not even a second date! But if it has to be done, it’s better to do it sooner rather than later. You don’t want to lead him on, because if you do, he’ll notice you’re not happy, and you’ll only fight and never talk to each other again. You certainly don’t want to make an enemy out of him! So, tell him after the date. Say you’ve been meaning to say it for the night, but were afraid of what he would think. Say you’re sorry, but things just aren’t working as you planned. You figured it would be a great summer romance, but you just can’t handle it as of now. You want to move on, but keep in touch and be friends for as long as possible. If he really likes you, he’ll compromise and understand.
Hope this helps!
Maybe WebCam?
well i think however you decide to meet up with him,you should tell him that you do not want to see him any more,because if the shoe was on the other foot you would want to know,trust me love is blind.
Well first of all, it’s long distance, so doing it to his face without a fesable way to see him might be out of the question. Dumping someone on a date is an immature way of handling things. It can also be embarassing and make that person resentful if you do something like that. Just tell him you need to talk to him about something very important and ask if there is a way you two can meet. If not, then the only thing you can really do is talk to him on the phone. Texting is a horrible way to break up, so make sure if you can’t see him in person, you speak to him.
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