I can't forget/accept my past! I'm jealous of everything he do.?
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I’ve been in a relationship with a guy for over a year and months.. Before I met him i was a person who didn’t care for anything, i could say i barely had feelings for anybody..
Then i met this guy, we started out on the wrong side.. we didn’t see each other very much i can say we only saw each other 1 time in a month… after 4 months we were meeting everyday, everything seemed perfect.. I had these suspects i didn’t trust him anymore so i guessed his password and went trough his emails.. and i found him sending emails to a girl saying he is sorry for what he had done to her.. I was so angry i called him and told him everything i done and found.. He broke up with me and didn’t want to talk to me.. But i love this guy so much i kept fighting for him. I had to go trough rough times, i was crying all day, kicking things it just made me feel better to let it out.. After a month crying, calling him and browsing on internet searching ‘How to get your ex back’! Yeah i know i was depressed.. We got back..
Everything was going perfect, until i found out he was talking to other girls, telling them he wants to cuddle them, tell them to go near him at work. These are only two girls that i know of.. I just told him i found out and he kept regretting it.. but i know how he writes. he gave them his phone number.. it was just to obviously it was him.. he told me if i would forgive him and i said yes cause it was to hard for me to go trough what i’ve been after only 2 months.
Now everything is going ok, except i’m always checking his emails, i’m always sad thinking about these two girls and i don’t really trust him. I’m always jealous when he buys something to his mother..
Today he bought her something i was so jealous i wanted to burst out crying and run for the door.. but i knew i couldn’t. She told us not to buy anything to each other for valentines day and he didn’t buy me anything. Maybe that’s why? I don’t know..
I think i may be ruining this relationship i’m always depressed, crying, making up fights, i didn’t even tell him that i was sad because he didn’t buy me nothing for valentines.. I don’t expect anything really.. but valentines? Yeah it broke my heart.. I really don’t want to make this relationship end I really love him and i’m willing to do anything to fix everything. But i don’t think we can go on like this anymore…
I would appreciate your help and time.. Thanks 
Jay T.. I never really found out he was cheating on me, And i’m sure he never cheated. he just talks to other girls the way he’s supposed to talk to me..
Epic Dark.. Yes i should do it. Just tell him in his face.. That’s a big problem of myself, I hold in to much!
Brooke, I know i may be torturing my self. But even imagining my life without him i cry.. He is really trying hard to make things work out, but i think i’m throwing everything away by doing these things.. I am not really a trustful person but i want to trust him cause i can’t even explain my love for him, i spend everyday with him. we go shopping together eat together, give’s me money when i don’t have any. but it’s still hard for me to trust him and not be jealous. I think i may be making some progress by accepting that i’m jealous of him and i want to fix that as soon as possible!
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I think you have a lot of issues and shouldn’t be in a relationship right now. You should work on your issues and yourself and fix your insecurities. Another really bad thing you are doing is letting Jealously consume you to the point of paranoia. You checked his email very early in the ‘relationship’ and ruined his trust right away. He is going to leave you if you don’t smarten up. Who wants to be around someone who is constantly sad, depressed, hard to please, starts fights, cries and is unbelievably jealous, including of his own mother.
You should consider getting some professional help. She/he can help you channel your emotions and become a stronger woman so that you can have a healthy trusting relationship with the man you love. If talking to someone isn’t an option, then you should work on these issues on your own. It’s hard work, but you have to do it.
That being said, you should also consider the guy you are with. If you two are serious and in a relationship, he is constantly breaking your trust by crossing the line with other women. This is hurtful and is not helping you at all. You don’t trust him, and he isn’t doing anything to fix that, therefore you will constantly be hurt over and over again by this man. Unless he is willing to change. You need to do some serious thinking, some serious talking with your boyfriend and take it step by step until you have everything worked out and you fix your relationship and issues.
I hope everything works out, but please, don’t torture yourself everyday if he is going to continually do this over and over. It’s hurtful and you don’t need it. You can find another man that will love you completely – enough not to do stuff like that.
*Edit: Well, I honestly think you love him as much as anyone can love a person. But I think when he broke your trust (and maybe even other boyfriends or people in your life broke your trust as well) you are finding it hard to just let go and trust him. I know because I’m in the same situation and you are right. It is torture, but so is thinking of life without him. It took me about four months to let go of my insecurities and hurt and trust my husband again. So far it’s been going really well and we are working things out. But it takes two, and my husband knows he messed up by talking to those girls and now he is doing something about it and your boyfriend needs to do that as well, otherwise it won’t work out because you will never learn to trust him again. Good luck!!
The whole thing is very unhealthy … he is taking you for a fool…but YOU are letting him… your self esteem must be very low… instead of trawling "how to get my ex that i didn’t trust…so had to spy on him and found out he was cheating..but want him back internet sites…………………………………………….. google "how to raise my self esteem"… when you respect yourself i.e.>>>do not let guys cheat on you time an again…then you will be strong enough to send out the right signals to a guy who will love and respect you…good luck..
We can’t forget our past, because this is how we learn and grow for future decisions. But we can accept our past.
Tell Him How You Feel, Don’t Hold It In. Atleast Tell SOMEONE, Dont Keep It Inside. And If You Dont Have The Guts To Tell Him, E-mail Him Or Write Him A Letter. Holding It In Will Only Make It Worse
You don’t love him like you say you do…because you don’t trust him. You may care about him and want to be in love…but you’ll never get there because you don’t care and love yourself enough to know that being involved with a man you don’t trust will not get you want you need and deserve. Because he knows he can "get away" with communicating with other women while he’s in a relationship with you by just apologizing to you, he is already two steps ahead of you in the game and will continue to talk to and even involve himself with other women. He feels he has you on a string…and in a sense, he does. You are very emotional when it comes to him. Your jealousy is coming from your insecurity and he’s made it possible for you to get there due to his behavior. Any man who really, really cares about you will not be involved or communicating with other women like he does. He keeps his options open because he’s not that emotionally connected to you. Men in love act stupid when it comes to the women they love. He could give a rat’s a** how you feel and what you think. No more acceptance of his behavior or his apologies. Time to get yourself together and stronger for a good man. Time to let him go. Okay?