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Is there hope? Does my Ex Girlfriend Want me Back?

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We have been broken up for about 8 months. We dated for 7 months and saw eachother every day and loved eachother very much. Talked about having children and traveling together. I took her on a dinner cruise for her bday and bought her a diamond necklace. And wrote her a card telling her how special she was to me. I love her still, but I know theres no way I can take her back. She broke up with me saying its not you its me. I need to do this for me. I have to get things straight. She texted me that she couldnt love me b/c she loved her ex and we were puppy love.

Then 2 weeks later shes with her ex, dumps him in a month and is with this new guy. This new guy used to text her when we were together. Anyways she is still with him. He is one of those dbags that wears the affliction shirts and a hat always. I tried to get back with her in november telling her I still love her and my feelings. She said the timings not right and that i shouldnt wait for her. I asked if she missed me or had feelings for me still. She replied with I dont know what to say…im happy. So I told her to leave me alone totally and shes not the girl i thought she was. About two months later she texts me saying one of her cousins is preggo or whatever. Totally random why do I care. So we text alittle. Then another 3 weeks go by and another text from her asking what i was up to on a friday night. Then another 3 weeks go bye and she texts me to ask me what times church. I am so confused. Now she just friend requested me on facebook. I deleted her back in November! So I accepted her request. Thinking whatever its no big deal. But as i thought about it more, i realized i dont want her prying into my life. I mean she made the decision to leave my life so why let her still be apart of it indirectly. And i really don’t want to see what shes up to with her new dude. Because I feel cheated like that should be me. So I deleted her again. I am getting over her and she is trying to **** with my head again. I have been with 4 other girls since her. I’ll admit though she is the one I want. I really felt a connection to this girl I never felt before she was my first love. On her facebook I saw she broke up and got back with this current guy like 3 times. And she didnt have like any lovey dovey messages from him on her wall. When she added me she removed the notification from her wall immediatly that we were friends again. And like last night she posts like for the first time in a long time on her wall some cutesy message about grilling with her baby or whatever. Oh and get this the day she added me on fb i saw her on the street walking and she turned smiling and looked at me in my car then turned her head the next second and kept walking.

Anyways, do you think it was immature of me to delete her as a friend? Do you think it was wrong of me? Why do you think she is all of a sudden contacting me? What does this facebook stuff she did make you think? I am doing it for me not because I’m trying to be mean to her. I wish we could get back together but thats only going to happen if she begs b/c i am not going back with a wishy washy girl.


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6 Responses to “Is there hope? Does my Ex Girlfriend Want me Back?”

  • Ashley:
    May 15, 2010 at 6:37 am

    No it was not immature to delete her from your friends, but, fb stalking her is weird and if you want to get over her stop it. You need to move on because she doesn’t want anything to do with you. I would say that the only reason that she txts you is because she was alone and you were her last resort (no offense) or she knew that you would take her back…then she got back together with whoever and you got tossed aside. So delete her from your fb and do not add her anymore… and stop the fb stalking and move on!

  • Brittany:
    May 15, 2010 at 6:37 am

    hmm didnt read all that but if u wanna know, ask her.

  • Jearhby:
    May 15, 2010 at 6:37 am

    Shes still interested. But keep your guard up. It sounds like she wants to cheat on her current bf with you. You can get your self caught up in a lot of drama. Don’t push onto her, too much.

    If she calls, answer it and hear what she has to say. And if shes one of those girls with empty thoughts when she calls someone, let her know you don’t have time for that and your busy with something important. Don’t even wait for her to say "Okay", just hang up.

    For some reason, this is weed out if she really really really likes your or just wants a buddy. If she really really really likes you, she will call/text with something to say.

  • Christiana:
    May 15, 2010 at 6:37 am

    SHE WANTS YOU BACK!!!!!!!!!!! Now it’s your choice if she wants you back. As for the deleting friend… that was a bit immature. Lolz. But understandable as I might also do that same. If you decided you want her back though. Take things slow, go easy, don’t talk too much about feelings and make her feel like she made a mistake to leave you and has to work to get you back. However don’t keep that up forever, or that’d be just one of those one sided relationships that no one wants to be in. I wish you luck, but I should say if I was a guy, I’d run away as far as I could from that gal..

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