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How to win my ex boyfriend back?

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I really still care about him, we just decided to go our seperate ways because we were getting too serious and he basically pushed me away. We have a 7 year age difference, im 22 and hes 29. We sometimes talk, but I really want us to get back together. It’e been 4 months, and I know getting back together with exes is a bad idea, but I still really care about him. We still talk, but its usually me contacting him first. Any tips in winning him back.?

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What is the best way to break up with ur gf?

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Ive been goin out w/ my girlfriend for 4 months now. Im 14 and in 8th grade. But i kinda lost feelings for her. Also I want to be single starting high school. Her friends are all really popular and they will be pissed if I break up w/ her. Wuts da best way to break up?

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How do you break up with your boyfriend easliy?

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I mean, he moved like 4 months ago and i’m not really good with long-distance relationships. Does anyone have any idea’s on how to break up without crushing his heart ya know?

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How to stop feeling like crap when your ex boyfriend talks about other girls he think are hot?

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we just broke up a few days ago and were together for a year and 4 months almost five. He said he wants to be my friend and just wants to find who he is since i have been his only real girlfriend i believe that but he is saying we might get back together one day he just needs time to himself but still wants to talk to me… i wanna stop feeling so sick when he talks about other girls how can i

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How do i get my ex back? i miss him.?

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okay, me and my ex our history goes back a little while, our sisters are now in collage they’ve been best friends since 2nd grade. and still are. thats how we got started liking each other. we became friends by us talking on the phone everynight for about 4 months and as time grew i liked him alot. he started to like my friend and so i stupidly invited them both over. he flirted with her so i flirted with him, she didnt like him. on the car ride to drive him home all three of us were in the back seat. he was in the middle. my friend fell asleep. and so on. anyway we kissed. the day after the next he asked me out. we liked each other alot!!!. i thought i would do somthing stupid so maybe a week later i broke up with him. but i told him we could still kiss and stuff . i broke up with him because i was afriad i would hurt him so i told him we could still kiss so it would feel like we were still going out… but i knew i couldnt lie to myself so i went out with someone to get over him. he got back at me by going out with a girl that i liked. and i liked him too. and she broke up with him because she like me too and we were good friends. and now he dispises me. i broke up with him hopeing to still be good friends and he hates me.. how do i get him back?

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How do I get emotionally stable after a breakup?

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My girl and I broke up 4 months ago. This has been really tough for me. I’ve wanted her back I’ve wanted her out of my life, and for the past 4 months I’ve been emotionally up and down. I’ve spent time with friends and joined new things, but the feelings good and bad always seem to haunt me. I know that it takes time to get over a breakup, but does anyone have any advice other than the usual which I’ve already tried, that’ll help get past the anxiety?

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i really still like my ex boyfriend and i want to go back out with him. so i need any tips you have to get him back. if it helps we went out for 4 months on and of 3 times.

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The Past 4 Months, The Next 8 | Japan

What do you do to get your ex-boyfriend back?

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So me and my boyfriend broke up on monday. We are both 15. We got in a little argument but it wasn’t a big deal, after we calmed down we were talking and he said he doesn’t know what to do, because he still loves me and has feelings for me but he doesn’t want a girlfriend. It really confused me but I tried to understand. He also said he might go chasing back. But i’m not sure.

We were together for about 4 months and we were a very happy couple and would never really get in fights.

Anyways he broke up with me because he doesn’t want to be in relationship, but he still loves me. He said if we were friends it would be weird because he would be all over me and still want to kiss me and stuff.

But I was really sad and cried for a while because I love him a lot and did not want to lose him, especially 3 days before school.

He didn’t talk to me for 3 days, and we saw each other in school but he didn’t talk. He definatley didn’t leave me because of another girl.

Anyways I know he still has a lot of feelings for me, but I don’t know why he is not talking to me. I want him back sooo bad because I am kind of depressed without him. I want to talk to him badly and try to get him back, but I also don’t want to be the first one to talk to him because I don’t want to seem desperate.

Anyways should I talk to him? message or in school?
Or should I wait?
How do I get him to come back to me? I need him.
PLEASE HELP!
thanksss.

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how to truly get over your ex boyfriend (work together, etc)?

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Really been struggling with this for months, and all the advice in the world from all my great friends isn’t really seeming to do anything.

Background:
My ex and I met through our job and quickly became really close friends. He liked me for a long time before I ever liked him in a romantic way. About a year and half after we had known each other, we started going on dates and nothing was too serious because I had to move out of town. I tried to distance myself from the situation, knowing I had to leave. Long story short, I moved away and he still liked me for months still texting me and calling me etc. I told him I had feelings but we both had to stop. After a year I decided to move back home for reasons unrelated to him and once I got home, we got together as a real couple.
Now, our relationship was really great at first and we were both having the happiest times of our lives. It ended shortly, within about 3 to 4 months for mostly reasons concerning our starkly different beliefs and his busy schedule, etc. I really loved him, and still do, but I knew that we had to break it off because with our differences, he was hurting me and it hurt him to see him hurting me. We decided to stay best friends, and real best friends, not just how couples say that and then never speak again.
The first few weeks after we broke up were very hard, but we still talked every day. Eventually we gradually stopped talking on the phone as much (besides seeing each other at work, which is also very hard.) I constantly gathered our friends together to try to maintain our friendship, but as time went on my ex seemed less and less inclined to be my friend right away. I asked him about this a few times, asking him to be open with me and tell me if he really did still want to stay friends and the first few times he said, "yes of course." the last conversation I had with him about it he was more honest saying that things will never be the same no matter what we do. he is pretty short with me at work most the time and he never initiates hanging out. i’ve tried to come to terms with the fact we can’t be the same as we were.
now, it’s been about 7 months since we broke up and some days i feel like im over him and some days it’s still pretty bad. When I see him with other people (especially girls, even though he’s not really dating any of them) I get very jealous and sad that I’m not a part of his life any more, I’m not one of his best friends like I used to be.
I’m turning into a crazy ex girlfriend, stalking his facebook page and finding info about this girl that I’ve concluded he has a crush on and has gone on a few dates with. He’s not the kind of guy who dates around or anything, and this girl looks nice and very pretty, but I get absolutely furious like someone is tearing my heart when I think about him with her and her replacing me.

I know it’s over. And it’s been over for a while. But I want to be truly happy for him. I want to get over this and be able to move on with my own life without having to seek attention from him, which I know is a longing for the past that I will never have again.

Sorry this is so long, but if you’ve stuck around enough to read all this, please lend me some advice. Thanks everybody!
I have gone a few weeks with no contact with him, but I still hear about him from coworkers/friends, or have to see him at work, or see his posts on facebook. I haven’t talk to him much at all the past month. I’m deactivating my facebook so I don’t have the urge to lurk his posts or who he talks to.

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ive like this guy for 1 1/2 years then i finally dated him but he broke up with him because we never really talked but he said he still liked me he just wanted to get to know me better. then 2 months later we got back together because we got to know each other more then i broke up with him because things just wasn’t working out (my life was basically ruined at the time) and our break up wasn’t good he said "maybe you shouldn’t date people if your gonna do this because you can really hurt them, im not hurt im just pissed off." then later that night he was texting my friend and this is the text he sent her "i hate life and i hate people and i hate everything, especially people f*** them" i know this make me and him seem like bad people but hes actually really nice and sweet he was just mad when he said that. its been like 4 months and i just cant get over him, i tried and tried but i really do like him….my friends say they think he likes me to, they say hes always trying to get my attention by trying to talk to my friends and that he stares at me alot. i try to not get in his way so i guess i don’t notice it….but anyways help!?! (i sound desperate i know but hes special…i was in a bad place when i broke up with him, not drugs or anything like that it was family related) help pleasee?(: thanks (that was really long sorry)
i want serious answers. were both 14