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Break-up………………………………….?

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I just broke up with my bf of 5 months. I really liked him. how do i deal with it?

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How to win my ex girlfriend back?

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She broke up with me on the phone on Thursday night.
However tomorrow (sunday) I am going around to her house to collect some stuff I left there while we were together, and also give back her things that she left at mine.
I was going to try and take this opportunity to and win her back. When we broke up she asked me "Can I text you later?" and i replied
"I’d rather you didn’t, sorry…"

So we haven’t had any communication at all since the break-up (which like i said before, was only a 5 minute phone conversation.)
I have also deleted her off my Facebook.
I have looked up various ways on how to win back your ex girlfriend but I’m still quite unsure.
She I act like I’m not bothered?
Or should I turn up and tell her how much I fucking love her. Because, trust me, I was a wreck when she broke up with me.

Need help! Anything help would be much appreciated, thanks. x

And just for the record, we had been together nearly 5 months.
:::EDITED:::
the reason why i deleted her off my facebook is so i could try and get over her, limit as much contact as possible.
Also, i did nothing to abuse her trust… Why assume I did? Just because we have split up doesn’t mean we hate each other.

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i'm so sad… =(?

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my exgf who i still love and was my girlfriend for 4 years…

now is 5 months pregnant and i just knew it like yesterday… and she will be marrying this new found boyfriend for 8 months in June 16… =(

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I'm just so sad… =(?

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my exgf who i still love and was my girlfriend for 4 years…

now is 5 months pregnant… and she will be marrying this new found boyfriend for 8 months in June 16 this year… =(

and i just knew it like yesterday…

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dating after an affair?

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my exhusband cheated on me with a younger women and they live together everyone now knows what type of person she is and has cheated on my exhusband, after my divorce I felt that the other women was better than I was bla bla bla….hard to handle back then, now after 5 years I met a man that I thought was my everything he treated me like a queen in the beginning, then I started to notice he got frustrated very easily along with, to me, a drinking problem..well I wanted to slow down in the relationship due to these matters he got very angry at me, so now I saw the anger issue….well I have found out that he had a DUI and was driving under a suspended liscense, along with living on and off with an exgirlfriend, after about 5 months he removed his things from his exgirlfriends house and wanted a relationship with me said he wanted to work on us that he made many mistakes, so I tried, well that did not work, I broke up with him due to his exgf and finding out he was on another site chatting with women I did not know about, I had talked to his exgf and she said that he has cheated on her, lies, and is a charmer, but she says he always comes back to her…this is my issue, due to what my ex did and now this man always goes back to his ex just felt that ex’s girlfriend got my husband and now this guys exgf said he always comes back to me, like I did not ever have a chance with him that she was the better women…I know that sounds so sick to think that cause why would I want either one of those men in my life, but at times just can not help the thoughts..when someone betrays you it hurts more then anything in the world and messes with your mind and heart…..I know I am a good person, but just can not stop feeling like a fool . I at times can still hear his exgf says you go and get rings, go on vacation, but he always comes back to me….I should have ran the other way, but regret not doing so…

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I lied cheated on a beautiful dreamgirl, she gave 2nd chance, why am I screwing up ?

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I cant really defend myself.
I had the most wonderful sweet perfect gf for nearly 5 months.
But I needed a loan to keep my whole business alive.
I have a son to support
I decided to keep seeing my older rich ex gf in hopes she would lend me money
she did but unfortunately my dreamgirl gf found out
and worse i lied to her about seeing my ex and she was too smart for it
so she broke up with me
but then week later said she loved me and believed in forgiveness.
so we started slowly talking again. 2 weeks wnet by and my business is now doing amazing. if i hadnt had the loan from my exgf i would be under water.
i also ran into another girl i used to date long ago.
at the same time my exgf said she wanted to try again and believed in me.
so here it is a month later and i told my exgf i wanted to see her this weekend to talk and go out together.
she agreed
i told her i would call her friday
i didnt.
i ran into my exgf from long ago and it felt fated.
so we went out tonight and it was okay.
but not fireworks.
now my exgf texted me and sent me an email
she said simply that she thought i said i wanted to see her this weekend and that she is confused and hurt and cancelled out of town plans for memorial day because she thought it was more important to see me and missed me.
she said she is sad and feels like giving up on trying.

did i screw up by telling her i would see her this weekend and not calling her yesterday ??

we still have Sunday.

why is she so upset now ?

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dating after divorce due to an affair?

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my exhusband cheated on me with a younger women and they live together everyone now knows what type of person she is and has cheated on my exhusband, after my divorce I felt that the other women was better than I was bla bla bla….hard to handle back then, now after 5 years I met a man that I thought was my everything he treated me like a queen in the beginning, then I started to notice he got frustrated very easily along with, to me, a drinking problem..well I wanted to slow down in the relationship due to these matters he got very angry at me, so now I saw the anger issue….well I have found out that he had a DUI and was driving under a suspended liscense, along with living on and off with an exgirlfriend, after about 5 months he removed his things from his exgirlfriends house and wanted a relationship with me said he wanted to work on us that he made many mistakes, so I tried, well that did not work, I broke up with him due to his exgf and finding out he was on another site chatting with women I did not know about, I had talked to his exgf and she said that he has cheated on her, lies, and is a charmer, but she says he always comes back to her…this is my issue, due to what my ex did and now this man always goes back to his ex just felt that ex’s girlfriend got my husband and now this guys exgf said he always comes back to me, like I did not ever have a chance with him that she was the better women…I know that sounds so sick to think that cause why would I want either one of those men in my life, but at times just can not help the thoughts..when someone betrays you it hurts more then anything in the world and messes with your mind and heart…..I know I am a good person, but just can not stop feeling like a fool . I at times can still hear his exgf says you go and get rings, go on vacation, but he always comes back to me….I should have ran the other way, but regret not doing so…

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How do you save your marriage when you are no longer in love?

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My husband and I met when I was 18 years old. He is the only man I have ever been with and he is 16 years older than me. We got married and now have three beautiful boys together (ages 4, 3 and 5 months). So now I am 30 and he is 46. I just don’t feel like I love him anymore. I actually feel like I married him because he loved me. I always had low self esteem and I thought well if he loves me we should get married and have kids. I am not attracted to him nor do I feel we have any similarities. We have different political, religious and other beliefs. It doesn’t help that my parents don’t care for him much either. He likes to drink (beer) and most nights he isn’t sober enough for the two of us to have couple time. I guess I am longing to meet that person who wants to do active things with my kids and I and has a little more zest for life. He kind of sits back and lets me do the decision making and I really want a man that wants to be the strong father and husband. I feel horribly bad because he confesses his undying love for me, and how lucky he is to have me and the kids, and how happy he is to find such a special girl but I feel so guilty because I don’t have similar feelings for him. I don’t know what to do because the kids are so young. I feel responsible to make this work. I am just so unhappy and I have been denying and pushing the feeling away for a long time.
I didn’t post that I was leaving. I am asking for advice of how to revive a marriage. We have spoken about my feelings and he simply says he is old and tired and that he can’t keep up with the demands that I am asking for. I simply feel like I am raising the kids and running the household on my own and he is here for the ride.

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Help this is Awkward my friend dated this girl 6 months ago?

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and broke up after 4 months due to her age?
of being short of 18 and went bk to his exgf for 5 months and have just recently ended it.

Well heres the prob. I found myself drawn to my friends exgf (the one who was under 18 but will be in a few months) I asked her out (since my friend went bk to his gf shortly after the break up with the girl i liked and it had been almost 6 months) and we have been dating heavy for over a month now & feel there’s soo much there for us. But my friend came over to my house after id been dating this girl (he didn’t know) for 3 weeks and told me hes going to try to get bk with her and hes been calling her and asking her out but she always puts him off. Now i was going to tell him but was shocked to find out he had feelings for her again…but my new gf does not for him and would never go bk. But here where I need your help…we can’t keep this a secrete anymore so how is the best way to handle this one? thanks

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what do you think about this kind of man?

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I have been with my ex for 6 months. after 3 months in relationship he told me he still had feeling for his exgf so i let him go back to her. he cried back to me within a day telling me he realized that he loved me and need me and the feeling to ex probably guilty and responsibility. 5 months passed by he told me he wanted to have three some with me and a bar girl and also i found the message he left for the wrong person so i could not handle it then i told him I wanna break up so beged me for forgiveness and he promised me he did not need to do it so I forgave him so two weeks later he told me he is sorry he is not ready to commit and did not have strong feeling enough to get through the marriage. he did not mean this to happen but he have found somebody else that he is interested in.
i am all confused what exactly he trying to do. he told me some time he think he does not deserve me. is it about a man charactor or it is something wrong with me. we broke up but what he left inside my head are all doubts about myself