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How can i win back my ex boyfriend, who's liking and thinking about dating this other girl?

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Ugh, i got over him. but recently he came back into my life. we talked about getting back together than he calls me two days later and tells me he like to see and maybe date this other girl, he really is crushing on. what can i do to win him back? ive told him my feelings. we’ve agreed to be best friends for now and im trying to deal with my feelings. but still its so hard. i really want him back.

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How can you get your ex Boyfriend back ?

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like he broke up with me a couple of months ago
but recently my feelings for him
are comming back.

like on friday, i was with him and he was was trying to annoy me >.<
by spitting at me , i told him not to cause i wasn’t in the mood and some one in my family had passed away :’(.
so he gave me a really close hug , and his face was like near mine , like he wanted to kiss me or something :S
and then he started to be all touchy.

But then my two best friends were talking , saying i should get back with him , blah blah blah!
and one of my best mates said " if she is getting into him again im going to F**ken slap her ".

yeash i did get into my ex more than once.
i miss seeing him
help me !

Charlotte xxx
oh !
sorry this is long

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How do you get your ex-boyfriend back?

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Now and then, I still love him. But he is still mad at me for what I did along time ago. I never cheated on him before. He thinks I cheated on him by his best friend at an another school in my district. This mean girl back in my 8th grade year thinks I cheated on him and I was moving on with best friend and told everyone about it everyone (at school, on the internet, at church, her best friends, her new boyfriend, etc) That is why he hated me because of that, but I know that’s not really true for what she says to everyone. So give me some tips please. Show me respect.

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How do i get my ex back? i miss him.?

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okay, me and my ex our history goes back a little while, our sisters are now in collage they’ve been best friends since 2nd grade. and still are. thats how we got started liking each other. we became friends by us talking on the phone everynight for about 4 months and as time grew i liked him alot. he started to like my friend and so i stupidly invited them both over. he flirted with her so i flirted with him, she didnt like him. on the car ride to drive him home all three of us were in the back seat. he was in the middle. my friend fell asleep. and so on. anyway we kissed. the day after the next he asked me out. we liked each other alot!!!. i thought i would do somthing stupid so maybe a week later i broke up with him. but i told him we could still kiss and stuff . i broke up with him because i was afriad i would hurt him so i told him we could still kiss so it would feel like we were still going out… but i knew i couldnt lie to myself so i went out with someone to get over him. he got back at me by going out with a girl that i liked. and i liked him too. and she broke up with him because she like me too and we were good friends. and now he dispises me. i broke up with him hopeing to still be good friends and he hates me.. how do i get him back?

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How do you get your boyfriend back?

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ok i’m 13 and i’ve been with my boyfriend for a year and three months. We broke up and been completely like best friends but after we broke up i realized how much i wanted him back. I think about him all the time and talk to him practically everyday. i know i’m very young but i feel like there something missing like we were meant to be what do i do ?
( I’m not a stalker or a desperate girly lmao! i just need some advice on which direction i should be headed in)

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Any good songs to listen to after a breakup?

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Me and my bf just recently broke up. We were best friends. But the last month we kinda drifted apart and he was acting weird. It was kinda a mutual thing but more him than me. Im completely over it and so happy but hes not over it at all.
Any good songs to listen to? Preferably pop/rock/country breakup songs about stupid boys that make mistakes, moving on, so over it, that sorta thing, etc.
Thanks so much!

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How to get over your ex when he's your best friend?

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Okay, so I have a problem. My boyfriend of almost two years (a week from today would have been our two year anniversary) decided last week he just wants to be friends. He has been uncertain about coming to see me and transferring to my university to be with me (we met online years ago when we were 16 and are both in college now). He is one of those guys who can never be 100% certain about anything, but I told him he needs to be for this. Everything blew up from there and we ended it kind of bitterly last Friday because of it.

He has been my best friend in the world since we met each other and he feels mutually. He said if he couldn’t have anything else with me, he wants to keep our friendship most of all if nothing else. I feel the same, but after all of the crap he has pulled with me, it’s hard for me to get over it. The problem is, I am still in love with him and want to be with him. I know this is because it only happened a week ago and I need time to get over him. I know that as time goes on and I accept we aren’t together anymore that I will be able to get over it (I hope), but it’s hard to when we still talk frequently. We keep telling each other we need a break from each other, but we can’t seem to stop talking to each other because we always have been best friends and this has been our routine since we met, which is hard to break after years of practice.

He says that he still feels like we should be together and that we will work out, but he also feels like he just wants to be friends. He has a lot of personal stuff he needs to get through and he needs to figure out what he wants before we can ever think of getting back together and we both realize that. Neither of us wants to get back together and go through all of this again, so we know we need to spend time apart and figure out what we really want. The problem is, we just can’t seem to STAY apart. Every time one of us says "Okay, we need to have a break," it’ll start for a few hours or a day, but then one of us just ends up texting the other because we miss each other so much and we feel like we need each other even though we aren’t together anymore.

I guess what I’m really asking is how can I get over him when we are still so dependent on each other? There is so much more that goes into our dependence than I can begin to describe here, so please just believe me when I say we are truly dependent on each other in so many ways. We really are best friends and always were before and during our relationship and still are now after. I know we need time apart, but I don’t know how to separate myself from him without hurting both of us. He was my first boyfriend period, let alone long term, so I’ve never gone through this before and am looking for the advice of people more experienced with breaking up and who have gone through this when their best friend has also been their significant other. Any advice or words of wisdom or even just sympathies are welcome.

Thanks, everyone, for reading through all of this and taking the time to answer. I really appreciate it.
To Jason, I’m glad my answer helped you. Just believe me when I say she is completely focused and concerned with her dad right now and doesn’t need to be bothered with thinking of a relationship. I really think this will bring you closer, especially since she will see how supportive you are of her. You can email me at elven_princess_14@yahoo.com if you want to talk about it more.

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How to get your ex back , who's now your best friend.?

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We dated a little bit ago , then we broke up and moved and now live in the same area and are now best friends hang out every single day and talk on the phone for hours .. but he’s sorta seeing this other girl now . I just want to know how do you think i can get him back ?

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how to truly get over your ex boyfriend (work together, etc)?

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Really been struggling with this for months, and all the advice in the world from all my great friends isn’t really seeming to do anything.

Background:
My ex and I met through our job and quickly became really close friends. He liked me for a long time before I ever liked him in a romantic way. About a year and half after we had known each other, we started going on dates and nothing was too serious because I had to move out of town. I tried to distance myself from the situation, knowing I had to leave. Long story short, I moved away and he still liked me for months still texting me and calling me etc. I told him I had feelings but we both had to stop. After a year I decided to move back home for reasons unrelated to him and once I got home, we got together as a real couple.
Now, our relationship was really great at first and we were both having the happiest times of our lives. It ended shortly, within about 3 to 4 months for mostly reasons concerning our starkly different beliefs and his busy schedule, etc. I really loved him, and still do, but I knew that we had to break it off because with our differences, he was hurting me and it hurt him to see him hurting me. We decided to stay best friends, and real best friends, not just how couples say that and then never speak again.
The first few weeks after we broke up were very hard, but we still talked every day. Eventually we gradually stopped talking on the phone as much (besides seeing each other at work, which is also very hard.) I constantly gathered our friends together to try to maintain our friendship, but as time went on my ex seemed less and less inclined to be my friend right away. I asked him about this a few times, asking him to be open with me and tell me if he really did still want to stay friends and the first few times he said, "yes of course." the last conversation I had with him about it he was more honest saying that things will never be the same no matter what we do. he is pretty short with me at work most the time and he never initiates hanging out. i’ve tried to come to terms with the fact we can’t be the same as we were.
now, it’s been about 7 months since we broke up and some days i feel like im over him and some days it’s still pretty bad. When I see him with other people (especially girls, even though he’s not really dating any of them) I get very jealous and sad that I’m not a part of his life any more, I’m not one of his best friends like I used to be.
I’m turning into a crazy ex girlfriend, stalking his facebook page and finding info about this girl that I’ve concluded he has a crush on and has gone on a few dates with. He’s not the kind of guy who dates around or anything, and this girl looks nice and very pretty, but I get absolutely furious like someone is tearing my heart when I think about him with her and her replacing me.

I know it’s over. And it’s been over for a while. But I want to be truly happy for him. I want to get over this and be able to move on with my own life without having to seek attention from him, which I know is a longing for the past that I will never have again.

Sorry this is so long, but if you’ve stuck around enough to read all this, please lend me some advice. Thanks everybody!
I have gone a few weeks with no contact with him, but I still hear about him from coworkers/friends, or have to see him at work, or see his posts on facebook. I haven’t talk to him much at all the past month. I’m deactivating my facebook so I don’t have the urge to lurk his posts or who he talks to.

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We’re both fourteen and we’ve been dating for a little over a month. We were best friends before we started dating, but she doesn’t want to be public about dating since we’re both girls and I can’t stand to be with her in secret.

Should I give her an ultimatum (go public or break up) or just break up with her? And how should I tell her this? Thanks in advance ^^ 10 pts for best answer!