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How to get over a longterm relationship breakup?

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Me and my girlfriend have been going out for 6 months and she just ended it today. She said things got boring and that she was sorry and all that crap. And right now im mad more than anything but i know im going to be really down about this in about an hour and i just wanted to know some ways yall cope with a serious breakup.. Please dont answer with Hooking up with someone else, that really doesnt help me.

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How do I get my exgf to stop talking about her new bf all of the time?

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I dont want to be rude…i wanted us to remain friends and now we are, but she just started dating this new guy in the past couple of months and it seems like everytime we hang out, it is always he did this….he said that….
It has gotten so freakin old, but I dont want to be a bad sport and rain on her parade. Now she wants me and my new gf to double date with her and this guy that she is DYING for me to meet….does this not seem weird to anyone else?
How do I make her stop all of her annoying "sharing" without saying anything that makes it sound like I am unable to handle her finding someone new? I can handle it just fine…her dating someone else gets her out of my hair and lifts a weight off of me, but she is annoying the crap out of me talking about Mr. Wonderful all of the time.

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What Do you do If your boyfriend hates your ex but you and your ex are still friends but nothing more?

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my boyfriend hates my ex boyfriend cuz when me and him dated i used to tell my now boyfriend about all the crap me and my ex went through and he had to hear about me complain about him and then say that i wasnt going to talk to him again. But then we got past that awakward stage and we started talking and became friends again. I told my ex when we broke up that we wernt ever going to get together again. He still flirts with me sometimes tho because we have classes together and my boyfriend goes to another school AND I AM NOT GOING TO CHEAT ON HIM. I tell my ex boyfriend alot of things tho about me and my now boyfriends relationship just like how i would tell my boyfriend when we wernt dating about me and my ex’s problems. Is it that bad to still be friends with your ex cuz apparentally to my boyfriend it is

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How to get over your ex when he's your best friend?

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Okay, so I have a problem. My boyfriend of almost two years (a week from today would have been our two year anniversary) decided last week he just wants to be friends. He has been uncertain about coming to see me and transferring to my university to be with me (we met online years ago when we were 16 and are both in college now). He is one of those guys who can never be 100% certain about anything, but I told him he needs to be for this. Everything blew up from there and we ended it kind of bitterly last Friday because of it.

He has been my best friend in the world since we met each other and he feels mutually. He said if he couldn’t have anything else with me, he wants to keep our friendship most of all if nothing else. I feel the same, but after all of the crap he has pulled with me, it’s hard for me to get over it. The problem is, I am still in love with him and want to be with him. I know this is because it only happened a week ago and I need time to get over him. I know that as time goes on and I accept we aren’t together anymore that I will be able to get over it (I hope), but it’s hard to when we still talk frequently. We keep telling each other we need a break from each other, but we can’t seem to stop talking to each other because we always have been best friends and this has been our routine since we met, which is hard to break after years of practice.

He says that he still feels like we should be together and that we will work out, but he also feels like he just wants to be friends. He has a lot of personal stuff he needs to get through and he needs to figure out what he wants before we can ever think of getting back together and we both realize that. Neither of us wants to get back together and go through all of this again, so we know we need to spend time apart and figure out what we really want. The problem is, we just can’t seem to STAY apart. Every time one of us says "Okay, we need to have a break," it’ll start for a few hours or a day, but then one of us just ends up texting the other because we miss each other so much and we feel like we need each other even though we aren’t together anymore.

I guess what I’m really asking is how can I get over him when we are still so dependent on each other? There is so much more that goes into our dependence than I can begin to describe here, so please just believe me when I say we are truly dependent on each other in so many ways. We really are best friends and always were before and during our relationship and still are now after. I know we need time apart, but I don’t know how to separate myself from him without hurting both of us. He was my first boyfriend period, let alone long term, so I’ve never gone through this before and am looking for the advice of people more experienced with breaking up and who have gone through this when their best friend has also been their significant other. Any advice or words of wisdom or even just sympathies are welcome.

Thanks, everyone, for reading through all of this and taking the time to answer. I really appreciate it.
To Jason, I’m glad my answer helped you. Just believe me when I say she is completely focused and concerned with her dad right now and doesn’t need to be bothered with thinking of a relationship. I really think this will bring you closer, especially since she will see how supportive you are of her. You can email me at elven_princess_14@yahoo.com if you want to talk about it more.

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PLEASE HELP! How to win him back? 10 POINTS for best answer?

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Okay so I have been talking to this guy for about 2 months online getting to know each other. Things were going well until his ex’s cousin hit me up & without knowing about his ex, I told her I liked him only to find out about his ex and how crazy she is about him, cuts herself and more. And she said they’re kind of cool again, hinting me to back off, which i didn’t want to as I didn’t completely believe her story. Since that day he hasn’t been talking to me the same. So i decided to tell him about it, but i lied to him about the girl telling me not to talk to him =/ and the convo went like this
Me:
omg that little girl was telling me stroies & told me not to talk to u! i didnt kno wat to believe ..i blocked her

Him : wtf ?

Me:she told me her cousin was crazy abt u & cut herself & stuff .. so told me not to talk to u =/

Him:wtf
man
idk wtf she duin

Me: dont worry .. i know ur a good person! i dont believe all that stuff!

Him:lmao
m dumb high all the time

Me: lol u need to come over my house oneday so u & me can chill
lol

Him:nah
m tired
n m movin
so m busy for week
llol

Me:oh i seeee!

Him:yeh
yeh
she told me yuh said yuh not talk to menow
n stuff
lmao

I PANICKED CUS i lied and I knew his ex’s cousin would’ve told him how i liked him & pitied his ex & asked her to see his ex’s pics to see what she looked like ..

Me: lmaooo wow ok! but i am talking to you? lol i mean if u or ur girlfriend dont want me to talk to u .. its fine

Me:lmao
f*** it ai

Me: idk i dont wanna hurt u or anybody else! if u dont want me to hit u up .. i understand! i wont be mad i promise =]

Him: Alright then

10 mins later
Me:ok i shouldnt"ve said all that crap -__- lol & i still wanna talk to u cus ur fun! =] is that fine? lol

Him:idc
idunt even kno wats goin on

Me:i dont either! can we just forget all that stupid stuff please?

Him:ai

And I didn’t continue the conversation as i was falling apart. I wish I never found out about his ex or dug deep in it. But It was my mistake, and I told him a lie too, and i felt so guilty, he used to be so cute to me, had a nick name for me & all that. I really like him, WHAT CAN I DO TO GO BACK TO BEING LIKE THAT?

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How do you break up with a needy girl that might go psycho?

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My brother is going to break up with his girlfriend and it will come as a shock to her. Her and her family is trying to get him to propose and she wants a house and kids and all that crap. And she asks him about 200 times a day "do you love me? I love you" blah blah. And she says she can’t live without him and that he is the only one who can maker her happy etc. What happens if she goes completely nuts when he shitcanns her? Anyone with experience from a similar partner?

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How do you break up with a needy girl that might go psycho?

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My brother is going to break up with his girlfriend and it will come as a shock to her. Her and her family is trying to get him to propose and she wants a house and kids and all that crap. And she asks him about 200 times a day "do you love me? I love you" blah blah. And she says she can’t live without him and that he is the only one who can maker her happy etc. What happens if she goes completely nuts when he shitcanns her? Anyone with experience from a similar partner?

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What do you do when your ex-boyfriend is trying to start trouble in your new relationship by?

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Passing off rumors and messages to me and to other people that I like this one man who stays in the same apartment complex that I do. The guy seems to like me, but I don’t see him in the same manner. I love my husband, and I don’t do that crap.
My ex-boyfriend and his friends are so selfish. They don’t care who gets hurt about anything, they just want their cinamatic comedy… a good laugh and something to talk about. What do I do?

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boy problem. help??

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ok should i really care what my ex bf thinks of me.?? we went out in march-may and then we broke up then we did’nt talk ever sense. then a month ago he tells me he hates me anf idk why?? he wont tell me… im the one that should hate him for dumping me to go back out with his exgf on the same day.!!! well anyways like 2 weeks ago i went camping with his sis and family and i avoided him the hole time then i went up to him and said sorry for whatever i did.. and then we were cool he did’nt hate me anymore.. then when i came back home and we were talkin on myspace and he was all mad at me again… and he still would’nt tell me why so i just left it alone…and these past few days i think im startin to like him again:/ then today when i was talki to his sis on myspace she said he called me a hoe and all this crap… im not a hoe so idk why im all pissed off.. should i really care what he thinks.??

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get him back, keep him, stop ur divorce…. books, what do u think about this kind of books?

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there many many many books about this kind of things, u know like how to get your man back, how to stop your break up or divorce, and i was wondering if someone acutally have read any of this, if they work, if they’re just crap…. or just your opinion about it