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how can you get your ex boyfriend back?

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ok long story short we were together for over a year then we moved in together…it kindof ruined us…i want to start over but he really wont talk much to me…what do i do? i told him how i felt in a long email. i told him i want to start over and i love him very much…but what should i do now? wait it out and act like his friend? or should i act like im sad so he knows how i feel? tell me how to get him back!!
oh and i moved back home…i used to go visit him when i had time then we moved in together and things went sour but im back home now…i just want to start over

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How should I break up with my boyfriend?

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I have been dating a sophomore for a little over three months now. I am a freshman. I really want to break up with him but I don’t know what to say to him. I know I have to do it face to face so please don’t tell me to do it over email or the phone. I don’t want to hurt him and he is really emotional so I know he would most likely cry. Help? Thanks.

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If you won your ex-boyfriend back, how did you do it? ?

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It has been one month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me over some trust issues I had with him.

He was previously married for 9 years and has only been divorced for almost a year now. Before me, he dated another woman for 5 months and he broke up with her the same way he did with me; he withdrew emotionally, physically and picked fights with her then broke up with her over the phone. He told me he did this once he realized he was no longer in love with her.

I know he probably broke up with me because he is probably rebounding from being married for so long. I don’t think he’s dealing with the emotional aftermath of getting divorced in the best way, by dating women so soon after the end of his marriage.

But I can’t help wonder if I can successfully win him back, even though he broke up with me.

I emailed him last week and asked him to meet with me to talk but he sent me an email back refusing:

"I understand meeting to clear the air but honestly I do not see us getting back together. Honestly, there are too many things that I need to work through and I just don’t see us being togther. With that being said I don’t think that I will be seeing you today. Sorry."

So, what do you think? Should I keep trying or just give up?

We’re both in our late 30s by the way.

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What is the appropriate way to break up with a girl friend?

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What is the break up etiquette? By phone, by testing, by email, through a third person or physically in person? does it really matter how you do it?

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3 months after a breakup would you meet your ex for lunch?

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You have been keeping in touch (nothing deep) a couple of weeks by email since the breakup. If your ex asked to meet for lunch, would you go? What would you think was up?

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Help! ex g/f won’t leave us alone!?

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DH exgf from HS (20 yrs ago) has been contacting my DH on and off for years. The last time (3 years ago) things got way out of hand with both of them. I kicked DH ass out. We have reconcilled and things are going good. The ex is now trying to get in contact again. She usually waits a few years between contacts. She found DH bro on facebook and sent him an email. I told my brotherinlaw not to give out any info whatsoever so did my DH. DH knows that if he even says boo to her it’s over and he doesn’t want to lose his family for her. She has her own family and two kids as well. What can I do to keep this woman away from us. We have had all our numbers changed three years ago and we moved to another location but she is persistant. I’m a nervous wreck because all the emotions form the last encounter is coming to the surface, there were threats made by her and her husband, pictures taken of my children and me, letters placed in my mailbox and the list goes on. Short of hiring someone to take care of this situation, what are my options? I thought of contacting woman’s husband, but I think he’ll believe his little darling over me – like he did last time…even though I had letters and emails to discredit her. Thanks for your help.

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HELP!?!! i need advice !!!?

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i broke up with my bf for college…im a senior is high school now, and i miss him a lot! i know there is a chance that he may go to college and come back for thanksgiving a completely changed person.. and this depresses me because i dont want to grow apart… we have loose plans to get back together…

in the meantime, we are going to keep in touch via email and phone calls. one one hand, i dont want to be that stalker exgf that alwyas calls and responds to emails the very next day. on the other hand, i dotn want to be so distant that he forgets about me

i guess what im saying is, i dont know how to approach our new relationship. what are soem ways to keep him ensnared in my charm and still want to give things a try later on?

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I lied cheated on a beautiful dreamgirl, she gave 2nd chance, why am I screwing up ?

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I cant really defend myself.
I had the most wonderful sweet perfect gf for nearly 5 months.
But I needed a loan to keep my whole business alive.
I have a son to support
I decided to keep seeing my older rich ex gf in hopes she would lend me money
she did but unfortunately my dreamgirl gf found out
and worse i lied to her about seeing my ex and she was too smart for it
so she broke up with me
but then week later said she loved me and believed in forgiveness.
so we started slowly talking again. 2 weeks wnet by and my business is now doing amazing. if i hadnt had the loan from my exgf i would be under water.
i also ran into another girl i used to date long ago.
at the same time my exgf said she wanted to try again and believed in me.
so here it is a month later and i told my exgf i wanted to see her this weekend to talk and go out together.
she agreed
i told her i would call her friday
i didnt.
i ran into my exgf from long ago and it felt fated.
so we went out tonight and it was okay.
but not fireworks.
now my exgf texted me and sent me an email
she said simply that she thought i said i wanted to see her this weekend and that she is confused and hurt and cancelled out of town plans for memorial day because she thought it was more important to see me and missed me.
she said she is sad and feels like giving up on trying.

did i screw up by telling her i would see her this weekend and not calling her yesterday ??

we still have Sunday.

why is she so upset now ?

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HELP!??! my bf and i broke up for collegee…..?

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im a senior is high school now, and i miss him a lot! i know there is a chance that he may go to college and come back for thanksgiving a completely changed person.. and this depresses me because i dont want to grow apart… we have loose plans to get back together…

in the meantime, we are going to keep in touch via email and phone calls. one one hand, i dont want to be that stalker exgf that alwyas calls and responds to emails the very next day. on the other hand, i dotn want to be so distant that he forgets about me

i guess what im saying is, i dont know how to approach our new relationship. what are soem ways to keep him ensnared in my charm and still want to give things a try later on?

ps im not usually one for mind games but if that ignoring thing really works…lemme know! thanks.

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Help!! Should i send a poem to her?

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My exgf broke up with me like one and a half month ago. She’s moved on and has a bf but she still misses me. I still love her and miss her a lot. We are in the same class but we haven’t talked to each other since the first day of school (which is also the day she dumped me). So for a few days after we split, i’ve tried to ask her to come back but she said no and i’ve told her that i miss her and love her so much. Then after that i stopped. When we were together, i’ve asked her if she missed her ex-bfs and she honestly said no. But in my case, she misses me. Is that a good sign or what? Should i write her a poem and send it to her email or not, just to let her know of my feelings? Adding to the problem, we’re a les couple and the main reason she dumped is coz she’s scared of not being accepted by society. I’m just worried that she’ll hate me if i send her a love poem. So please help me!!