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Girls what is the best way to win back my ex’s heart?

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I love my ex how can I win her love back. How much time does a girl need when she says she needs time by herself to sort out her emotions?

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How do you know if your marriage is worth saving?

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My husband and I have been married almost 4 years. It has been a rough 4 years but we have weathered many storms together. There have been fights and arguments and other stuff. He has been unfaithful in the past but I forgave him and gave him a second chance because I love my husband and I value my marriage. We were rushed into getting married. When I was introduced to his family, he and I had it set in our minds to get married 18 months from the time he proposed which would have been around mid-2009. His family said that if we were serious we should get married right away and his mother threw together a wedding in like 3 weeks. It was not what I wanted and was not happy with how things went. My husband, however, comforted me and told me that it didn’t matter to him because I was now his wife. Now, my husband is 7 years my junior. In the beginning, I didn’t want to even talk to him because he was so much younger than me but we had a lot in common. We took this quiz about can your marriage be saved. It didn’t turn out like I thought. I just don’t know what to do. How do you know if you can save your marriage? How do you know if your marriage is even worth saving? I really need some help with this. I love my husband very much. He has a problem with expressing his emotions or whatever so I really don’t know what he feels or thinks. Somebody, please help me!!

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How do you get your ex-girlfriend back with you from another guy? [Quite long, sorry]?

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Here’s the story.
We’ve been in a relationship for a couple of years. She has been such a great impact on my life and I want to be able to do this right and hopefully I’m not too late. I love her and she does acknowledge that what we had was real and amazing and that some part of her is still with me. We’ve gone through many arguments and fights (like any other relationship) and over spring break this year, another guy comes and she starts avoiding me.
I know there’s a thing between them, but she tells me she doesn’t want ‘love.’ She wants to be free, but she spends a lot of time with this guy.
She says there’s things about people she can’t accept and he’s done something that she would not be able to live with for life, but she’s still letting him get closer and he IS planning on winning her.
I’m wondering if this is more or less a rebound relationship and that I’d have a chance back at her and if there is, what should I do?

I’ve been reading a lot of articles and many say to let it go, be there for her and be patient OR to stick with the no contact rule.
They also say NOT to sound desperate, beg for chances, etc. but I was too late and I pushed my emotions onto her. I regret doing this.
I couldn’t speak directly to her so I’d write things down on several pieces of paper and show them to her.
I did expect reactions, but I’m sure I was wrong to expect them from her as she’d do nothing at all.

Would it be better to tell her NOW that I respect her decisions and will be there for her?
That I respect her decisions, but will have to leave for some time?
Or would it be better to just vanish and see what happens?
Any other ideas?

I told her I would wait for her, but it is it better to just say I want to move on and see if she’ll care or maybe not saying anything at all about it?

I’m sure my constant pushing at this has made her want to talk less and less to me, but I’m trying my best to avoid her and let her do as she pleases. The last thing I said to her was that I would leave and I may or may not come back to see how she’s doing. Was this bad to do?

Sorry for all of the questions in one.
Any answers about moving on will be ignored, I will do anything that I can to rebuild this relationship.

I HAVE tried directly talking to her and she seems to just ignore the things I say. She turns her attention away and I dont know if it ‘s just to distract herself.

Well lately I’ve been sort of watching over her through things and I have noticed her changes in youtube favorites. She adds music that is sad and shows feelings of emptiness. I have been avoiding contact with her and she has told me before that she’s happy spending time with other people. There is certainly another side to what she really feels from the music she listens to, right?

I told her upfront that I respected her desires to break up and haven’t been seen by her since.

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I sort of already asked this question but I felt the need to add a bit more to the main question itself since no one has been answering it. Thanks

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You broke with him and told him to leave you alone…what would he have to do for you to talk to him or rekindle emotions

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How to make enough of an impact to get/win Ex back?!?

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My bf and I broke up early Nov. of this past year. A few weeks after that he started dating a girl 5 years younger than him, and we are both 22. He claims that she was too immature and the age issue as well as others wouldn’t allow their relationship to further…calling it "short and sweet".

Last week we had a drawn out conversation mixed with feelings and emotions and he said that he wanted to cut off ALL ties with me bcuz he still had feelings for me and he was tired of pretending that he didn’t. He also said that during our time together (we broke up like 3 times only to get back) that I didnt "fight for our relationship" when it meant the most…

Besides me trying to talk to him, call him, send him notes (to see how his day was going) and asking if he wanted to go out or do something, what else can I do?! Hes making it seem like these things didnt add up to nothing.

Even after he wants to "cut off ties with me" he still calls and hits me up. What should I do?I love him
We broke up because of My infidelity issues…

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What emotions do you feel after a breakup?

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if you could go into depth on what you feel after you have an huge hurtful breakup. what are the emotions going through in your head?

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Would you get a divorce if your husband is a non-stop flirt?

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My husband has been flirting with girls in front of me over and over. He’s leaving to Iraq on January for a year so I feel like I have a limited time to trust him. I cant imagine him leaving with these thoughts. I already threatened the divorce and he said that he mest up multiple times but he did it again last night and of course denies it. I dont think he would go as far as cheating but I cant deal with all these emotions inside anymore. Would you get a divorce for this?

Help! ex g/f won’t leave us alone!?

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DH exgf from HS (20 yrs ago) has been contacting my DH on and off for years. The last time (3 years ago) things got way out of hand with both of them. I kicked DH ass out. We have reconcilled and things are going good. The ex is now trying to get in contact again. She usually waits a few years between contacts. She found DH bro on facebook and sent him an email. I told my brotherinlaw not to give out any info whatsoever so did my DH. DH knows that if he even says boo to her it’s over and he doesn’t want to lose his family for her. She has her own family and two kids as well. What can I do to keep this woman away from us. We have had all our numbers changed three years ago and we moved to another location but she is persistant. I’m a nervous wreck because all the emotions form the last encounter is coming to the surface, there were threats made by her and her husband, pictures taken of my children and me, letters placed in my mailbox and the list goes on. Short of hiring someone to take care of this situation, what are my options? I thought of contacting woman’s husband, but I think he’ll believe his little darling over me – like he did last time…even though I had letters and emails to discredit her. Thanks for your help.

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guy problem?

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ok theres this guy and hes 4 years older than me..i like him alot and he likes me…alot! he asked me if i want to marry him…yea…but he got upset at what this person said about us when he told them and asked another girl out (he liked me first) when i was on vacation…when i found out i was really mad..he later told me that he was hurt at what they said and asked her out…well i wasnt sure he cared and he was jus playing with my emotions..but then he broke up with her!so i kno he cares! but theres still alot of drama with her like she still says their going out (they did want to keep a low profile) shes my friend too..but this other guy likes me ALOT! and he was really sad when i was hanging out with the guy i like and his exgf asked what was wrong and he told her she told him that its jus a crush ill get over and that her bf will never like me anyway! i couldnt believe it! idk what to do! what should i do?

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Strong feelings for my EX but in a relationship (shortened)?

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Okay this is the much shortened version of another question… if you want more details you can go to my profile and check it out….
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I am in a relationship with a girl that has lasted 1 1/2 years.. i’m fairly happy but I notice a very obvious difference in the general maturity level of me and my gf… We’re both 18, but it seems like i’m 20, and she’s 14. (Many people have told me this). I do care for her greatly, and her family possibly even moreso.
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My exgf I have gone out with twice, once in 9th grade and again in 11th grade. During that whole time I was borderline obsessed with her. Both of us however were not ready for actual relationships; we both had issues that needed to be addressed. The failure of our second relationship brought about great change in both of us, so much so that we can now thank each other for "saving" each other from living like a 12 year old.
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My exgf had many issues including fear of public affection, locking up emotions, and she was slightly abusive. I was just a whiny little bltch about everything and had my own public affection fears and emotional fears…
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Now a friend of mine is dating her, and I find myself extremely jealous… All the things I nearly begged for when I was with her she is giving to him… Things so simple as letting him hold her in his arms while waiting in line somewhere, hugging him where all can see, giving a little kiss when visiting at work or saying goodbye. All of them, she had problems with when we were dating, and she still does but is working to try to get over it.
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Even now my friend is neglecting her. I know this because she’s texted me many a time about how he wont pay attention to her… And then out of no where I find myself texting his ass to give her attention… Emotionally painful when you think about it,,, I am basically telling a friend of mine to caress the girl i want so she can love him more… Its rather hard to do… and saddening
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I really feel that at the time we were dating we never had a chance to fully express ourselves, and never had a chance to fully explore our feelings because we were both just so young and immature. I find myself spending time with her and just wishing that I could press my lips softly against hers, or embrace her in my arms as she holds the side of her head against me….
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I even ran to her house recently (almost on instinct) when she told me she heard someone creeping around behind her house to make sure she was okay and safe… (I only do that for my gf, exgf, and bff Karen)
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I clearly haven’t been able to fully get over her, because i still find myself wanting to hold her and love her… I still know her better than almost anyone, and she knows me the same. I still gain pleasure out of making her smile, or making her happy… I enjoy spending time with her.. Things that I wouldn’t ever do she can somehow convince me to do without even trying, and I actually have fun.
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I am torn between my relationship with my current gf, and my feelings for her and her family… and all of these years old feelings for my exgf.. all of the unfulfilled wants, and desires… all of the feelings that i never got a chance to live… I just dont know what to do…. -.-

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