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guy problem?
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ok theres this guy and hes 4 years older than me..i like him alot and he likes me…alot! he asked me if i want to marry him…yea…but he got upset at what this person said about us when he told them and asked another girl out (he liked me first) when i was on vacation…when i found out i was really mad..he later told me that he was hurt at what they said and asked her out…well i wasnt sure he cared and he was jus playing with my emotions..but then he broke up with her!so i kno he cares! but theres still alot of drama with her like she still says their going out (they did want to keep a low profile) shes my friend too..but this other guy likes me ALOT! and he was really sad when i was hanging out with the guy i like and his exgf asked what was wrong and he told her she told him that its jus a crush ill get over and that her bf will never like me anyway! i couldnt believe it! idk what to do! what should i do?
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Strong feelings for my EX but in a relationship (shortened)?
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Okay this is the much shortened version of another question… if you want more details you can go to my profile and check it out….
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so here goes…
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I am in a relationship with a girl that has lasted 1 1/2 years.. i’m fairly happy but I notice a very obvious difference in the general maturity level of me and my gf… We’re both 18, but it seems like i’m 20, and she’s 14. (Many people have told me this). I do care for her greatly, and her family possibly even moreso.
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My exgf I have gone out with twice, once in 9th grade and again in 11th grade. During that whole time I was borderline obsessed with her. Both of us however were not ready for actual relationships; we both had issues that needed to be addressed. The failure of our second relationship brought about great change in both of us, so much so that we can now thank each other for "saving" each other from living like a 12 year old.
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My exgf had many issues including fear of public affection, locking up emotions, and she was slightly abusive. I was just a whiny little bltch about everything and had my own public affection fears and emotional fears…
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Now a friend of mine is dating her, and I find myself extremely jealous… All the things I nearly begged for when I was with her she is giving to him… Things so simple as letting him hold her in his arms while waiting in line somewhere, hugging him where all can see, giving a little kiss when visiting at work or saying goodbye. All of them, she had problems with when we were dating, and she still does but is working to try to get over it.
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Even now my friend is neglecting her. I know this because she’s texted me many a time about how he wont pay attention to her… And then out of no where I find myself texting his ass to give her attention… Emotionally painful when you think about it,,, I am basically telling a friend of mine to caress the girl i want so she can love him more… Its rather hard to do… and saddening
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I really feel that at the time we were dating we never had a chance to fully express ourselves, and never had a chance to fully explore our feelings because we were both just so young and immature. I find myself spending time with her and just wishing that I could press my lips softly against hers, or embrace her in my arms as she holds the side of her head against me….
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I even ran to her house recently (almost on instinct) when she told me she heard someone creeping around behind her house to make sure she was okay and safe… (I only do that for my gf, exgf, and bff Karen)
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I clearly haven’t been able to fully get over her, because i still find myself wanting to hold her and love her… I still know her better than almost anyone, and she knows me the same. I still gain pleasure out of making her smile, or making her happy… I enjoy spending time with her.. Things that I wouldn’t ever do she can somehow convince me to do without even trying, and I actually have fun.
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I am torn between my relationship with my current gf, and my feelings for her and her family… and all of these years old feelings for my exgf.. all of the unfulfilled wants, and desires… all of the feelings that i never got a chance to live… I just dont know what to do…. -.-
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Thanks for everyone's help =)?
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I feel better tonight after seeing my exgf there and i had no emotions for her…esp the lovey dovey kind stuff that i used to feel and the hurt i used to get. I am so happy that i am over my exgf, now i can live my life happy for myself. Just like to thank all the people who have been there for me on yahoo answers, thanks Michelle F, yay! have a nice day guys! woot!
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how do i get over the guilt of leaving my gf for another girl?
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My relationship with my gf was getting out of hand, she gets jealous easily when we are away. Of course, I always tell her about who I am with and everything. One day I had it, fed up of 3 years. I know I was having issues with commitment. I was hanging out with a girl that I feel she is compatible. So after a big fight again with my gf, I realize my life is easier with the new girl. However, now I think about it , knowing that my exgf is crying, I can’t help but feeling unfaithful and guilty..I also began to feel as if I’ve used someone as a shoulder to cry on. I dont know where my emotions are.
i got into the new relationship after the breakup.
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Why did he respond negatively to my apology?
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I am going through a divorce. At the beginning I met this guy through my then husband, the guy was nice to me and sort of enlightened me to how bad my relationship with my husband was. I am attracted to this person although overall I just took his behavior towards as being nice; I mean I had to right? because he has a GF. When I announced that I was getting a divorce on a social network he was one of the first respondents. Due to this I let him know about a bunch of details that he probably didn’t need to know about as I was caught up in the moment. Later my ex-mother-in-law found out about my attraction to him and sent him a mean email. He got mad at me and called me crazy etc. I tried to explain to him that I was not trying to interfere in his relationship I did not expect my ex-mother-in-law to do that and I apologized and told him even more details he didn’t ask for.
After a few months he seemed to have accepted it and became my friend again on a social network. A few days later he was no longer my friend again as seeing me talk about my ex (in a positive way) made him uncomfortable. So once again I told him more details about things going on or that happened because I am getting this vibe that he is blaming himself for the fall out of my relationship even though it was doomed anyhow. He apologized if his action offended me. Mind you I have been caught up in my emotions regarding life stuff and I emailed him some more about how my relationship with my ex was doomed anyhow and how the end really had nothing to do with him. I most likely said things that hurt him at one point I described how I might have used him to get back at my ex. I apologized again after this and sort of threw out a hand if he ever needed anyone to talk to because it seems to me he doesn’t know what he wants either. One minute he is my friend next he isn’t and I deliberately asked him to tell me if he did not want me contacting him. He did not necessarily accept the apology, did not tell me he didn’t want me contacting him although said he got the support he needed from his GF and ended the email with a snotty remark….
After this apology about every month or so I sent him a simple email just testing the water. You know "What’s going on? " etc. No response.
Personally, I am moving through a transitional time right now and really wanted this resolved and would like a truce so I sent him another email apologizing again and asking for a truce. He responded I would say negatively. He said that the most important relationship to him is the one with my ex (would have been nice if he felt that way while he was hitting on me on the internet), essentially called me crazy and told me to quit reaching out to him. In the end I feel he blew up at my apology and rejected it.
What does this mean? why did he respond that way? why couldn’t he accept my apology and agree to a truce? I was not asking for an actual friendships just a moving forward kind of truce….what is up with that?
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How to make enough of an impact to get/win Ex back?!?
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My bf and I broke up early Nov. of this past year. A few weeks after that he started dating a girl 5 years younger than him, and we are both 22. He claims that she was too immature and the age issue as well as others wouldn’t allow their relationship to further…calling it "short and sweet".
Last week we had a drawn out conversation mixed with feelings and emotions and he said that he wanted to cut off ALL ties with me bcuz he still had feelings for me and he was tired of pretending that he didn’t. He also said that during our time together (we broke up like 3 times only to get back) that I didnt "fight for our relationship" when it meant the most…
Besides me trying to talk to him, call him, send him notes (to see how his day was going) and asking if he wanted to go out or do something, what else can I do?! Hes making it seem like these things didnt add up to nothing.
Even after he wants to "cut off ties with me" he still calls and hits me up. What should I do?I love him
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