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Getting your EX back?

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so its been three months and the ex gf has moved on. but she still lets me have contact with her daughter whom i love very much. recently i had a myspace and a girl i was seeing for about a week would leave messages. now the ex has her new love request me and she writes on her myspace how much she loves this person after finding out i had one.. what is that all about? i denied the request i know its very childesh but im 30 years old and i recently took myspace off. is she jealous? plus if she didnt want anything to do with me she wouldnt let me have contact with her daughter. and she was suppose to change her number never did. i mean im moving on but what does this all mean. plus she knows i still love her. what the hell is going on with her?????? and how can i get her back really i love her but you knw the old saying let it go and if it loves you it will come back.. advice anyone???

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I some serious help with exgf and new gf?

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My ex gf of 5 years and my new gf of 6 months are working at the same place. They talk to each other during work. They even hung out on new years eve. My ex has no idea about the new girl and vice versa. Should I tell the new girl about my ex or should I keep my mouth shut?

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How to get an ex back after 2-3 months?

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my ex gf broke up with me back in december… how do i get her back? she basically gave me the lets be friends speech, but since then ive lost like 15 pounds and drastically altered my image, etc. I look better, feel better, and i want her back. how to go about it?

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Does using this technique cause your ex-boyfriend to come back to you?

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Scenario: You’ve dated 2 years, broke up because you argued constantly, the girl cried often, and the man yelled often. The man broke up with the girl because of how needy, unpatient, and ‘crazy’ she seemed because she felt like he didn’t care. They love eachother, but the man refuses to talk to the girl.

If you were the man and were so used to the girl ALWAYS calling, texting, planning, and etc and she suddenly just stopped… how would you feel? If you received a letter in the mail from you ex-gf that said

‘Hey, just wanted to let you know I agree with the break up. It was the best decision for both of us, I saw it coming for a while actually. Sorry I went crazy the other night."

Then on her facebook you saw "got good news! what perfect timing, so excited! "
Then she does not call, text, or have any form of communication with you. THEN she changes up her hair a bit, loses a little weight, looks happy, and has confidence.

How would that make you feel as an ex? Would you miss her? Would you want to call her or for her to call you, especially after a a few weeks to one month? What parts would spark your curiosity? Would you be more drawn to a woman who is beautiful, confident, and seems like she really doesn’t need you after all?

Please reply, studying physcology!
Also, what are the chances of the man actually calling or trying to talk again? It’s the ‘i want what i cant have’ method. How crazy would it drive a man if the girl he loved and dated so long seems like she is happy without him all the sudden and is glowing with confidence?

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How do girls get closure after a break up?

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My ex gf broke up with me about 9 months ago but she continues to find silly reasons to meet or call every couple of months. I mean within a month of our break up she had a new bf but she would still call or text about once a month for something silly. I stopped answering her calls about 4 months ago unless it was an emergency and then only thru email. Is she looking for closure? I thought she must have had it if she started dating.

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ok so i had this weird dream can u please help me see what it means?

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it is me and my boyfriend plus two more friends. we are hanging out in a circle each of us a lil bit apart, then this girl(my bfs exgf) comes but its not her walkin shes like floating she floats around my two friends and then floats like a few more times around my bf and grabs him then just floats away. i dont feel jealousy but i feel anger and resentment. she is connected to all 4 of us because she is the ex best friend of the girl there, the other guy is my bfs brother and they were friends and then she was my friend and of course she is mostly connected to my bf because she is his ex gf. btw his relationship with this girl has affect our relationship because his mom does not like me and doesnt trust us at all.
when him and this girl were together his mom didnt like her because she looked slutty and then when she broke up with him his mom distrusted his GF, which is me
him and his ex dont talk and its not insecurities
im not insecure, they dont talk the only way she affects our relationship is because his mom doesnt like me or trust us because of their relationship

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my girlfriend is inconsiderate?

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My girlfriend and I just recently started dating. We both just ended a relationship. She ended a year and a half relationship and i just ended a two years relationship. I worked in a hotel and she was a guest and i guess we just sort of flirted and started to go on dates. And she says she really likes me. and that i am amazing and all of these things. How i am better than her ex bf and stuff. She still does. She gets mad when i talk about my ex gf but my ex and i decided to not talk. But she still talks to her ex bf and he doesn’t even know about me. nor her parents.

We would go on dates and she would be texting him. And when my exgf text me once then she would get jealous. actually she gets really jealous when i talk to another girl.

But the problem that she had with her ex was that he had naked pictures of his ex gf. and lied to her many times about many different things. and they would get fights and he would hit her.

I broke up with my exgf because it was just difficult becuz shes indian and they are very cultured.

But i am a very patient guy. I allowed her to go see her exbf and sleep over and have him sleep over to talk things over. It was very uncomfortable for me. But in between there, I would go to her apartment and clean her dishes and kitchen just to help out. She gets stress a lot. I would also get her food and lunch when she has work. I also took her out on a dinner cruise in San Diego and that was fun. She had a bad day once and i decided to cheer her up by getting her pumpkins and flowers and cookies and a nice card. I would sleep over to make her not get scared when my parents are strict with those things.

But anyways everytime when we plan for me to come over. her ex bf came. I was fine for a while but this happened 3 weekends in a row. She didn’t cheat on me bcuz her roommate told me that they didn’t. She asked me to sleep over on a saturday night and as i was about to her ex boyfriend came to beg for her.

she told me that she wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, but we would be in a relationship just let time go by and decide what we would be.

She is busy everyday accept for sunday and monday. she has no school nor work on those days. I have work every weekend and school every monday and wednesday. The only i see her is after 9PM till 1PM. and when we do all we would do is help clean her room. Never go out and have fun. Just chill and relax.
Finally her ex bf doesn’t come this weekend. She told me to come over this weekend, to bring her an iron, and i told her that i need to pick up my clothes and she agreed. But when i was about to get off work, she was over at her parents house. Which was fine but at least she could tell me that she wasn’t going to make it.

I texted her that she was being disrespectful, and that she should at least say sorry or thank you or something. But all she would txt would be "ok". I told her how i felt. And she just said ," i told you i am not ready for a relationship."

my argument was that it had nothing to do with a relationship. it what a considerate person would do. Even a friend would tell each other that they wouldn’t be able to make it. Apologize and say thank you when someone does something for them. BUt she just says ,"ok". I am not the type of guy who gets mad. i give people chances. and i am very patient. I need people’s opinions and comments.

i feel very unappreciated, and used.

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i can't move on til i know how she feels?

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i met this girl 6 weeks before graduating college, right after i broke up with my exgf. we both started to have feelings for each other but were cautious because of the situation, me moving 500 miles away. we agreed to just be friends and she started to date someone else. but after we agreed to that, she told me she had to hold back around me bc she felt like was falling in love with me. she is a very good person, not one to play games. she was really overwhelmed by the situation. anyways, before i left to move back home, she said that she wanted to hang out but my ex-gf was over (i’m trying to work things out with my ex) i found out that she had gotten into a fight with her bf over me. i think she wanted to tell me that she likes me but i’m not sure. now, she won’t say anything. i get the feeling around her that she likes me and when i said i was trying to get over her, she seemed upset. i really like her but don’t want to make an *** out of myself by bringing this up again.
we’ve written poems for each other and there’s a kind of unspoken connection… i think but i feel like i don’t know what’s real anymore

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LOTZ OF Answers PLZ ???? WOMEN WOULD BE REALLY HELPFUL !?

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im 21 and some people still talk to me like a kid !
like last week with me and my ex gf whe the same age as me and iv know her since we where kids. and we ended up having a kid but she still talks to me like a kid.
this is what happend :
exgf : whats in your mouth ?
me : nothin
her : dont tell me its nothing i see somthing in your mouth
me :its nothin
her pen your mouth
me : no.
her : open yout mouth
me : i dont want too !
then she grabbed my cheeks and made me open my mouth.
her : is this candy ?
me : yea
her : who did you get candy from
me : my sister
her : you know you get suger high when you eat candy
me : just give it back
her : no.
me : BUT I WANT IT !!!
her : i dont care you cant have it.
me : plzzzz ???
her : im trowing it away.
me : POR QUE ?? GIVE IT BACK !!!

why does she still treat me like a little kid and why cant i get my candy back ???

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i am trying to move on but i can't because of the ambiguity?

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i met this girl 6 weeks before graduating college, right after i broke up with my exgf. we both started to have feelings for each other but were cautious because of the situation, me moving 500 miles away. we agreed to just be friends and she started to date someone else. but after we agreed to that, she told me she had to hold back around me bc she felt like was falling in love with me. she is a very good person, not one to play games. she was really overwhelmed by the situation. anyways, before i left to move back home, she said that she wanted to hang out but my ex-gf was over (i’m trying to work things out with my ex) i found out that she had gotten into a fight with her bf over me. i think she wanted to tell me that she likes me but i’m not sure. now, she won’t say anything. i get the feeling around her that she likes me and when i said i was trying to get over her, she seemed upset. i really like her but don’t want to make an ass out of myself by bringing this up again.
i kind of want to ask her to visit me but would this be inappropriate since she has a bf?