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3 reasons why you don’t want your ex back?

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Most of us have exes, and the relation to the most recent one can often be like an open wound. It has helped me a lot to think about reasons not to want him back. What are your reasons? Get it out here and you will feel so much better!!

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A long distance relationship after divorce?

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What do you think about this: 4 people — exwife, exgf, man, and woman he’s now seeing in a LDR.

Woman has known a man for 20 years (since high school but never dated). Woman has been divorced about 6 years and almost hooked up with a man 3 years ago at a mutual friends wedding but he didn’t go through with it. His divorce was final in April. His wife of 15 years cheated on him. He has been in a very serious relationship for 14 months that hurt him deeply (baggage from the divorce process coinciding with trying to start this new relationship). He ended the relationship over a stressful fight a couple months before his divorce was final.

Woman visited his house in April for a few days and they started dating (long distance) in May. They have spent 3 weekends and one vacation together over the past 6 months. He lives in DC. She lives in Florida. Neither are able or willing to move because of their careers, where they want to live their lives, and most importantly, both have children and visitation with our exes that will keep them separated at least 6 years until the woman’s daughter goes to college.

Man still communicates with his exgf in a very neutral but friendly manner. When he dumped the exgf (8 months ago), it was over problems that he now sees in concrete actions have been resolved, but at the time, he was very clear they were over. He has said more recently to mutual friends that he loved the exgf very much (3 months ago) and will always have a piece of their relationship in his heart and he doesn’t want to forget that (2 weeks ago). He also says they are just friends. Their kids are good friends so he sees the exgf at least weekly in passing and they help each other with shuttling their kids to sporting events, etc.

The exgf was local and they spent almost every evening together and were a very intense, compatible couple. Timing was just awful. Woman in Florida is able to just be fun loving because she’s not around to have to deal with daily life and what the man needs in his life post divorce.

1) Is the woman in Florida a rebound? They’ve known each other 20 years and were attracted enough to each other to almost have an affair, so I think it’s not. Man is just trying to move on though he probably wasn’t over the exgf when he started dating woman.

2) Does this long distance relationship have a chance given neither is willing to move? What’s your guess on when it will fizzle?

3) Would trust issues be a problem since his exwife cheated on him and the woman in Florida tried to entice him into an affair a few years ago? Would a man "catch on" to that?

4) Is there a chance he might go back to the exgf? Man knows she was heartbroken over the breakup and still loves him even though she’s dating others casually. Would exgf not communicating with man anymore instead of being his friend make any difference?

5) What can the woman in Florida do to keep the man in the LDR with her?

Any comments are appreciated.

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please help… saw my exgf last night?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. Im just so hurt by what she did. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*
was she trying to make me jealous? why?

she is the dumper. i am the dumpee.

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saw my exgf last night… please help anyone?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. She asked my friends if they we single. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*was she trying to make me jealous? why?
i still luv her

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saw my exgf.. please help anyone?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. She asked my friends if they we single. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*was she trying to make me jealous? why?
i still luv her

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saw my exgf… please help?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. Im just so hurt by what she did. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*
was she trying to make me jealous? why?

she is the dumper. i am the dumpee.

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saw my exgf… please help anyone?

Click here to get all the information you need to get your ex back

I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*

was she trying to make me jealous? why?
I still love her.

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saw my exgf… please help anyone?

Click here to get all the information you need to get your ex back

I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*

was she trying to make me jealous? why?
I still love her.

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saw exgf last night… please help anyone?

Click here to get all the information you need to get your ex back

I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. She asked my friends if they we single. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*was she trying to make me jealous? why?
i still luv her

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exgf issue please help?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. Im just so hurt by what she did. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*
was she trying to make me jealous? why?

she is the dumper. i am the dumpee.