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boy problem. help??

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ok should i really care what my ex bf thinks of me.?? we went out in march-may and then we broke up then we did’nt talk ever sense. then a month ago he tells me he hates me anf idk why?? he wont tell me… im the one that should hate him for dumping me to go back out with his exgf on the same day.!!! well anyways like 2 weeks ago i went camping with his sis and family and i avoided him the hole time then i went up to him and said sorry for whatever i did.. and then we were cool he did’nt hate me anymore.. then when i came back home and we were talkin on myspace and he was all mad at me again… and he still would’nt tell me why so i just left it alone…and these past few days i think im startin to like him again:/ then today when i was talki to his sis on myspace she said he called me a hoe and all this crap… im not a hoe so idk why im all pissed off.. should i really care what he thinks.??

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How to get my ex boyfriend back?

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I have been trying to win back my ex boyfriend. He flirts with me all the
time and wants to hang out with me. First off, let me mention that he broke
up with me in November. We avoided eachother almost all November. I found
out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because I was being too
"clingy". After I heard that I asked my ex to meet me somewhere to talk. He
agreed. I told that I felt like he didn’t trust me, so that’s why I started
to hang out with him more in order to prove to him I’m loyal. It was
interesting cause after that he said he felt like that I didn’t trust him
either, so since late November to now we have gotten along really well. Even
though I know we "just friends" it doesn’t feel like that to me because like
I said he flirts with me and hangout with me alot.

I remember a few days ago we were talking about our friends, and he was
surpised when I told him one of our friends is back with that guy again. He
told me he thinks it’s impossible for people who were dating and then broke
up, dating AGAIN. So, then I said, "Would you ever get back with your ex?"
He said, "That would be very hard for me to do." Then I said, "Oh." He
replied, "But don’t worry I still love you."

Okay, basically what I want to ask if you ever get the chance is, what does
it mean when he says,"That would be very hard for me to do?" Does that mean
I have no chance in getting him back? Plus I’m having a Valentine’s Party
this weekend and I hope I can use my party to somehow get him back. Can you
help me?

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Help!! Should i send a poem to her?

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My exgf broke up with me like one and a half month ago. She’s moved on and has a bf but she still misses me. I still love her and miss her a lot. We are in the same class but we haven’t talked to each other since the first day of school (which is also the day she dumped me). So for a few days after we split, i’ve tried to ask her to come back but she said no and i’ve told her that i miss her and love her so much. Then after that i stopped. When we were together, i’ve asked her if she missed her ex-bfs and she honestly said no. But in my case, she misses me. Is that a good sign or what? Should i write her a poem and send it to her email or not, just to let her know of my feelings? Adding to the problem, we’re a les couple and the main reason she dumped is coz she’s scared of not being accepted by society. I’m just worried that she’ll hate me if i send her a love poem. So please help me!!

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A long distance relationship after divorce?

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What do you think about this: 4 people — exwife, exgf, man, and woman he’s now seeing in a LDR.

Woman has known a man for 20 years (since high school but never dated). Woman has been divorced about 6 years and almost hooked up with a man 3 years ago at a mutual friends wedding but he didn’t go through with it. His divorce was final in April. His wife of 15 years cheated on him. He has been in a very serious relationship for 14 months that hurt him deeply (baggage from the divorce process coinciding with trying to start this new relationship). He ended the relationship over a stressful fight a couple months before his divorce was final.

Woman visited his house in April for a few days and they started dating (long distance) in May. They have spent 3 weekends and one vacation together over the past 6 months. He lives in DC. She lives in Florida. Neither are able or willing to move because of their careers, where they want to live their lives, and most importantly, both have children and visitation with our exes that will keep them separated at least 6 years until the woman’s daughter goes to college.

Man still communicates with his exgf in a very neutral but friendly manner. When he dumped the exgf (8 months ago), it was over problems that he now sees in concrete actions have been resolved, but at the time, he was very clear they were over. He has said more recently to mutual friends that he loved the exgf very much (3 months ago) and will always have a piece of their relationship in his heart and he doesn’t want to forget that (2 weeks ago). He also says they are just friends. Their kids are good friends so he sees the exgf at least weekly in passing and they help each other with shuttling their kids to sporting events, etc.

The exgf was local and they spent almost every evening together and were a very intense, compatible couple. Timing was just awful. Woman in Florida is able to just be fun loving because she’s not around to have to deal with daily life and what the man needs in his life post divorce.

1) Is the woman in Florida a rebound? They’ve known each other 20 years and were attracted enough to each other to almost have an affair, so I think it’s not. Man is just trying to move on though he probably wasn’t over the exgf when he started dating woman.

2) Does this long distance relationship have a chance given neither is willing to move? What’s your guess on when it will fizzle?

3) Would trust issues be a problem since his exwife cheated on him and the woman in Florida tried to entice him into an affair a few years ago? Would a man "catch on" to that?

4) Is there a chance he might go back to the exgf? Man knows she was heartbroken over the breakup and still loves him even though she’s dating others casually. Would exgf not communicating with man anymore instead of being his friend make any difference?

5) What can the woman in Florida do to keep the man in the LDR with her?

Any comments are appreciated.

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For the past few weeks my husband has really been getting on my nerves and I think I have been getting on his He will do something that he knows will annoy me and then when I respond he acts like a victim. He twist es around my words so when I talk to him he makes my points seem like I am complaining about nothing. Then I tried not talking and saying anything then I feel like I’ll have things pill ed up and I will explode. He is like a lawyer he can twist around anything I don’t debate that much so after a while I’ll just say forget it . He wont under any circumstances go to counseling and I mean the things we argue about is stupid but they are really starting to take a toll. Maybe I should just go away for a few days and then we will like each other again but all I know is we are really getting on each others nerves I don’t want it to lead to anything else but it is really getting bad and we argue about nothing

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I have a question about Harrassment?

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ok so on saturday I gave my exgf a note at work and txt her on my phone during lunch. Now three days later she calls work and tells them that im harrassing her when she didnt notify them a few days later…

Can I get fired?
The txts were alot of im sorry and she would say leave me alone but then few minutes later txt me something differant then say stop your harrasing me.

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should i take back my cheating boyfriend?

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we were dating for a few months and i went away on spring break. we were MADLY in love when i left and then when i came home, he randomly dumped me for no reason. then, a few days later, i found out when i was away he cheated on me with his exgf who had cheated on him last summer. i confronted him and he said he still loved me. im past the angry stage, but i still love him, and i want him back. what should i do?

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Why did he respond negatively to my apology?

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I am going through a divorce. At the beginning I met this guy through my then husband, the guy was nice to me and sort of enlightened me to how bad my relationship with my husband was. I am attracted to this person although overall I just took his behavior towards as being nice; I mean I had to right? because he has a GF. When I announced that I was getting a divorce on a social network he was one of the first respondents. Due to this I let him know about a bunch of details that he probably didn’t need to know about as I was caught up in the moment. Later my ex-mother-in-law found out about my attraction to him and sent him a mean email. He got mad at me and called me crazy etc. I tried to explain to him that I was not trying to interfere in his relationship I did not expect my ex-mother-in-law to do that and I apologized and told him even more details he didn’t ask for.

After a few months he seemed to have accepted it and became my friend again on a social network. A few days later he was no longer my friend again as seeing me talk about my ex (in a positive way) made him uncomfortable. So once again I told him more details about things going on or that happened because I am getting this vibe that he is blaming himself for the fall out of my relationship even though it was doomed anyhow. He apologized if his action offended me. Mind you I have been caught up in my emotions regarding life stuff and I emailed him some more about how my relationship with my ex was doomed anyhow and how the end really had nothing to do with him. I most likely said things that hurt him at one point I described how I might have used him to get back at my ex. I apologized again after this and sort of threw out a hand if he ever needed anyone to talk to because it seems to me he doesn’t know what he wants either. One minute he is my friend next he isn’t and I deliberately asked him to tell me if he did not want me contacting him. He did not necessarily accept the apology, did not tell me he didn’t want me contacting him although said he got the support he needed from his GF and ended the email with a snotty remark….

After this apology about every month or so I sent him a simple email just testing the water. You know "What’s going on? " etc. No response.

Personally, I am moving through a transitional time right now and really wanted this resolved and would like a truce so I sent him another email apologizing again and asking for a truce. He responded I would say negatively. He said that the most important relationship to him is the one with my ex (would have been nice if he felt that way while he was hitting on me on the internet), essentially called me crazy and told me to quit reaching out to him. In the end I feel he blew up at my apology and rejected it.

What does this mean? why did he respond that way? why couldn’t he accept my apology and agree to a truce? I was not asking for an actual friendships just a moving forward kind of truce….what is up with that?

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Whats a good way to get back at your ex after shes called you an UGLY B I T C H?

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k me and this girl went out for a few days and then broke up. This was about a month ago.well i still wanted to be her friend and she agreed so we were until a few days ago. As i said she called me an ugly ***** and she didnt want me in her life cause she liked another guy. How can i get back at her? i did like her but after she told me that and a bunch of other crap i just hate her guts!
i just dont know it doesnt feel right i still wish she was my friend but i would never go out wit her again because of wat she said.