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Does the 'Reverse Rejection' Tactic work to win back an ex… really?

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Okay so someone sent me an ebook to read… about how to win back an ex. It describes how everyone in the face of being dumped, automatically do ‘expected’ things because of the hurt and rejection. These turn out to be the opposite of what people should do… Instead of feeling hurt and trying to show their ex that they care and are hurting, they should instead stop all contact with them immediately (for at least 3-4 weeks) – this is because the negative aspects of the relationship will have been forgotten and then the ‘missing’ kicks in as they remember the good things. It says not to contact them under any circumstances before 3-4 weeks. If they contact you its ok. The whole idea about this book is that you can reverse the rejection so that they feel it instead. And something to do with push vs pull. If you wallow after a breakup it pushes them further away but if you reject the dumper, then they are supposed to try and pull you back?? Especially if they see you moving on with your life and possibly dating others (it says delete their number and all contact info except for Facebook or MSN because you can use those to put status updates that your ex will see that can help – nothing trashy that would make you look like a slut but things like "Out with So and So tonight be back later" )

Anyway, does this tactic work at all? Any better than trying to maintain contact?

I was with a guy who was very shy and things went well until recently, then he became distant and finally decided to leave. He still wanted to be friends but I knew that would be too difficult so I said no. Now, I *think* that he maybe got scared or that since he was shy I might have pushed things a bit too fast… but at first HE did the chasing!! All of it!! So if I try this tatcic will it reverse everything so he might do the chasing again? I am a bit leery of trying the reverse of everything my heart is telling me to do! It’s very hard to stop all contact!! But I dont want to be his friend… I want to be more!

I know that there is no 100% guarantee but just wondering if this tactic works better than what most people do (showing they are hurt, trying to make the ex feel guilty, etc)??? Guys in particular??

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HOW CAN I THANK THIS MAN WHO SAVED MY MARRIAGE?

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i just want to share my experience how i got my ex back and saved my marriage.. i was married for 10years with 3 kids and we lived a happy life.. until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments… it got heated that at a point, she filed for divorce.. i tried everything to get her back cos i loved her with all my heart and didnt want to loose her…she moved out of the house and left the kids..and then filed for divorce…i pleaded,and tried everything ..nothing worked..until someone introduced me to this wonderful spell caster who helped me out.. i never believed in those things but just decided to try reluctantly…he did special prayers and used roots and herbs..within 3 days, she called me and was pleading..i didnt believe my ears..anyways we are happy together now and have a nice life.. the kids are happy..ive introduced him to a lot of couples with problems accross the world and they have had good news..i just want to share my experience.. incase anyone needs this man, you can email him on DIVINESOLUTION72 at yahoo dot com….hope you get good news as well..wish you all the best…dont give up..save your marriage/relationship

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How Do You Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

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I Had this Ex A few months ago, He Fell in Love, his girlfriend Dumped him, Now hes single.

I REALLY NEED HIM BACK!
Im 12, So i Know i didn’t love him, i was just really attracted to him, im too young to love!

I miss Him, Every second where we are not going out i feel like Breaking a wall with my Head!
Not Being With Him Makes Me Wanna Cry!
He Apparently Loved Me, I was His Girlfriend For The Longest. But Then He Messed Up. He Hugged My Best friend ever and would not let go, while He hugged me for a split second! So That Completely Made My Heart ACHE!

I Completely Regret Breaking Up with Him, i Have To Hear His Voice Saying He Loves Me at Least One more Time! Next Time I see HIm I Just Might Bust Out In Tears!
PLEASE,Tell Me How To Get Him back.!

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Is it possible to get your ex back once she starts seeing a new guy?

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I was going out with my sweet beautiful girl kelly for about 8months, i love her very deeply, she has recently broken up with me and almost immediatly started seeing another guy, my heart is broken and its very painful, but im losing hope of getting her back since she started seeing this "guy" she was tearful on the breakup, and she feels bad for making me feel this way, but im not sure how to go about getting her to be mine again

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How do you break up with your boyfriend easliy?

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I mean, he moved like 4 months ago and i’m not really good with long-distance relationships. Does anyone have any idea’s on how to break up without crushing his heart ya know?

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how to get your ex boyfriend back from his girlfriend?

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WIN MY EX BOYFRIENDS HEART BACK

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What are good ways to win my ex BACK!!?

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tried moving on, its not working. i love him from all of my heart and he even admits he still loves me. i want to prove to him that we are meant to be together. i know he still wants me but he is just confused right now

please help me. i love him more than anything and the reason we broke up was actually very small and silly i tell people the reason and they laugh at me its that dumb and we have been together for years and years….we were going to get married too

how do i win him back

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what have you done to get your ex back?

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What have you tried to do to get your ex back? Did it work? And did you two last together?

I want to get my ex of 6 years back. We broke up a few wks ago b/c were having a rough last two months. But otherwise, we were awesome together. He thinks we werent happy…we werent for the last 2 months…but I see how that can be fixed now, i see where we went wrong (long story). I’m giving him space right now.I love him and know in my heart he still loves me.

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If you have failed as a wife how do you save your marriage….?

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After many years of marriage, I realize that it is me and not him that failed to do my part. Unfortunately his heart has wondered toward another. We are still married, what can I do besides apologize and ask for another chance? I’ve done that, but he won’t give me any clear sign whch way he is headed….

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what to do to get your ex back?

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What have you tried to do to get your ex back? Did it work? And did you two last together?

I want to get my ex of 6 years back. We broke up a few wks ago b/c were having a rough last two months. But otherwise, we were awesome together. He thinks we werent happy…we werent for the last 2 months…but I see how that can be fixed now, i see where we went wrong (long story). I’m giving him space right now.I love him and know in my heart he still loves me.