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How do I break up with someone nicely?

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Ok so I want to break up with my boyfirned but I dont know how the hell to do it. I dont wanna be mean about it and I dont want to hurt him I need good break-up advice.

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How can I get my ex boyfriend back? =/?

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Anyone have any advice for me? On how to get your exback i haven’t spoken to him all week i have ignored him and i stoped trying to contact him for a week now. Because like two weeks ago he brokeup with me on a tuesday and i tryed talking to him and he just seemed like he didnt want to but he did and he seems like he still cares and he said that he loved me and all im just so confused. I honestly think and his parents think its because of his band ever since he has been in it he just ended up making it his life and his number one and two of his friends are bad influences and his parents are really upset because they miss me and my daughter and they love us and they still want to see us and want us to visit them. And his mom was crying and gave me a huge saying she wishes some day i become her daughter in law. Well anyways iam not sure when he will talk to me idk what to do because i thought i blew it on halloween because his band had a show at the same place as my friends band and he didnt really think it was a good idea for me to go because he was afraid i was going to cause a scene and well after he played i tryed talking to him and he just freaked out yelling at me and so on monday his mom came over to talk to me because i was so upset about what happened and i was upset because he wrote to me saying he was on the fence of things until that happen so idk what the hell to do i love him we were together for almost 2years our 2 year is suppose to be this 11th coming up =/ and i have been talking to his mom and she said that she and his father talked to him and they said that he will contact you and they told him to comly talk to me bc. he does have a temper problem. And i just want him back even if he does have issues who doesnt? idk i really miss him and i feel like he was my soul mate and i feel like i mest up because he felt like things werent going to move forward b.c. i didnt have a job yet and i have been trying to find one but its just to dam hard now days to find one and we were suppose to move out together he gave me a promise ring for our one year and he said he has never done that before and iam his longest relationship so i need advice QUICK! on How to get him back because i really feel like and his parents feel like he is going backwards down a bad path again and i want him to see that iam here and iam going to be here and help him no matter what but idk i really want him back. Sorry i hope yous got some kind of sense of this. Right now i might be working at a hair salon soon and i just want to try to better my life and i want him to see some how iam positive and independent now i just want him back before i guess its to late….=/

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Getting your EX back?

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so its been three months and the ex gf has moved on. but she still lets me have contact with her daughter whom i love very much. recently i had a myspace and a girl i was seeing for about a week would leave messages. now the ex has her new love request me and she writes on her myspace how much she loves this person after finding out i had one.. what is that all about? i denied the request i know its very childesh but im 30 years old and i recently took myspace off. is she jealous? plus if she didnt want anything to do with me she wouldnt let me have contact with her daughter. and she was suppose to change her number never did. i mean im moving on but what does this all mean. plus she knows i still love her. what the hell is going on with her?????? and how can i get her back really i love her but you knw the old saying let it go and if it loves you it will come back.. advice anyone???

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how to win back your ex boyfriend?

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Hi, I need advice.
Basically me and my boyfriend were together for 3 years and a half, those three years were magical we never had a single problem. I never lied to him he never lied to me we never argued. Unfortunately some guy called kris came into our life who had a massive crush on me, at first i ignored it because i was in love with andy (my bf) but andy got agressive with me one day and i was scared of him a little and didnt trust him that much, kris was texting me and giving me lots of attention and i began to have a little crush on him, but i didnt tell andy because i was scared and still loved him. andy found out and was upset because i didnt tell him, but he nearly left me but realised i couldnt help it and came back to me, he told me not to text kris anymore to which i said ok, so i did stop texting kris.. but about a month on kris started texting me (by this time i was over kris and only saw him as a friend) i told him to leave me alone but ended up feeling guilty and texting him as a friend again.. andy left me again but realised it wasnt my fault i just felt guilty because kris was using a guilt trip on me.
He said look if you get rid of kris this time we will be together.. so i did i blocked kris on facebook and got completely new number and everything because i wanted him to leave me alone, but about two weeks ago i got a message from kris.. i dont know how the hell he got my number.. but instead of telling andy like i should of done or blocking him on my phone i was just telling him to go away and leave me alone because i want to get on with my life. andy saw the messages in my phone and left me because he thought i had lied to him. I showed him the messages from me saying to kris leave me alone but he said it doesnt matter its the fact u lied to me. So i let him be and we met up the thursday he started crying and saying *i still love you* and was looking deep into my eyes and nearly kissed me. Then he got angry with himself for doing it and saying we wll never be together and to leave him alone to get over me. So i did then he started texting me asking how I am etc… its so confusing.. how do i win him back.. i know he still loves me and misses me.. he tells me xx
andy has left me by the way!! i think i forgot to put that. Also i have blocked kris on my mobile because he was harassing me and threatend to rape me.. i showed andy this xx
yes I LOVE andy so much ive been heartbroken
well i keep begging him to come back but he just says no.. but then he keeps texting me asking how i am and the other day he nearly kissed me

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How to Win my Ex-Girlfriend Heart Back?

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Alright Yahoo. I need some help.

I’m a nice looking 22 year old college student who has been daiting a beautiful young 19 year old girl for almost 2 years now. Before we started dating we were close friends for over 6 months and have been through hell and back for each other. Our bond for each other was extremely close. She decided to come to the same college that I went to just to be close to me. We started dating weeks into her arriving to college.

Things were great, we had our ups and our downs. I had some small legal issues when I was 18 and her parents didn’t like the fact that I had to go to court for something very dumb. Just a dumb drunk thing some of my frat brothers did. So they disliked me after liking me for a year.

Now the school year just ended and on the last night she told me we had to talk, and she broke up with me. She told me she still loves me but looks at me as too much like a best friend and is confused. I filled the void of her best friend she lost while in High School. We both truly love each other but what do I do. How do I win my ex-girlfriend back. I know all the tricks to keep her around if she was here, but she’s gone for the whole summer and I’m 15 hours away. Please if you have some good advice on how to win her back please feel free to answer this. I truly believe that this girl is the one and I love her so much. Mature comments only:

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How to get your ex boyfriend to want you back?

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How to get your ex boyfriend to want you back?
So, he texted me saying were over.. told me he didnt want a girlfriend. Then 3 days later texted me "it was one hell of a run". After our 6 month relationship and him not deciding he wanted a girlfriend he starts to date my friend a month later… i introduced them… But I want him back, very much

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How to win my ex boyfriend back…?

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Okay, so this probably isn’t like a break up you have heard before.. Basically this is what has happened
1) After one month of me and my ex had been going out, for some reason I lied about smoking weed.. Don’t ask me why, because I don’t even know myself to be honest.
2) I smoked (not weed, cigarettes) and he HATES smokers and everytime I had a fag, he would have a HUGE go at me and we would argue a hell of a lot about it.
3) I broke several promises, these were about the smoking. I promised I wouldn’t smoke anymore, but as some of you may know, smoking is not an easy thing to give up.
4) One night, I was extremely depressed and I told him I just can’t live my life anymore and he started to get upset about it and hit walls (I was still going out with him at the time, but I wasn’t present with him and his Mum had to calm him down) so from when that happened, his Mum no longer liked me, which I understand.
5) At this point, my ex (I was still with him at the time) still thought I had smoked weed, so I decided I needed to tell him that I lied about that and I was immensely sorry. He asked me why I lied and I just still didn’t know why and he refused to talk to me until I told him why so I said, I did it to see your reaction.
6) After his mum stopped liking me, she was basically drilling stuff into his head about me (bad things).
7) At this point, we had about 3/4 break ups, one of them breakups lasted for a week and we got back together.
We have now been over for 2 weeks and I MISS HIM SO MUCH! But I don’t understand, I was with him for just under 4 months, and it’s hurt me so much. Before I started going out with this boy, long before I started going out with this boy I was with another boy for just over a year, and then he ended it, but it only took me 3 days to get over him.. I still cry like everyday because of my most recent break up.
I changed a lot of things for him, I didn’t lie about ANYTHING, I didn’t smoke anymore and that’s excactly how he wanted me to be, but now he doesn’t want to be with me..
How can I win him back? I don’t want answers like ‘You’re never going to win him back.’ I want answers that will ACTUALLY HELP!
Thanks.

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How do you save yourself and your marriage?

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My husband & I have been married 15yrs. 6 mths ago I found out he was having an affair, it lasted about 7 months. The affair is over and we are still together trying to survive the hell of it all. We both have some things to work on, but my husband has some serious personal growth that needs to take place before our marriage can be a healthy one. My ? is, is it possible for 2 people to work out their personal stuff and their relationship when one person can barely acknowledge their feelings. He has a serioud fear of abandonment. And we have 4 kids to deal with in the process, two of them are teenagers.

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just broke up with my gf – was it for a good reason? you tell me…?

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ok, so been dating this girl for almost a year, shes 22 im 27… shes very friendly and outgoing… tonight we planned to go bowling but couldn’t because of some major traffic. her friend had told her about going out to a bar and invited us over… so we decided to do that instead…

we get there, her friend is with 4 guys, one of which she invites over to her house even though she has a bf of three years, who happens to be in the swat team. can you say white trash?

anyways. another one of the guys knows my exgf and talks to her, at times im sort of bored, but say what the hell, don’t be jealous, i don’t expect her to only talk to me… then the whitetrash girl decides we should go to a strip bar (shes a former stripper btw).. btw – my exgf had a beer and a shot.. anyways i say sure, why not.. we pay our bills and get ready to leave, walk out to our cars… one of the guys, who is the whitetrashes boss (older maybe late thirties) apparently has a benz… my exgf says "ohh i never been a in a benz before, and says can i ride with you…" i dont object (wanted to see what she would do)… well shes decides to go with this guy whom i never met b4 (or any of the others)

so as Im trying to leave the parking lot to follow them (i already am steaming pissed) the guy is speeding fast, so obvious trying to ditch me.. and i just dumped her over the phone… she says hes married and its wt’s boss but im sure they wont stop him, but isn’t that really disrespectful? she must think im a fucking chump…

and i plan not to take her back

what do you think? did i overreact?

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why do women keep biting my head off ?

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every time i mess up i get my head biten off. like for example these :
i gave my kid candy in the moring, my exgf : what the hell is your problem your gonna get him hyper !

i i look down at a girl whos talking to me, her : you bastard stop looking down my shirt !
im 6’8 it kinda hard not to look down when a gril is talking to me.

i forget what a gril is talking about : you jackass you never pay attention !

i get pissed off when my friend wont give me any of her chocolate : you spoild brat go get your own !

why does this happen to me ?