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How can I get my ex boyfriend back? =/?

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Anyone have any advice for me? On how to get your exback i haven’t spoken to him all week i have ignored him and i stoped trying to contact him for a week now. Because like two weeks ago he brokeup with me on a tuesday and i tryed talking to him and he just seemed like he didnt want to but he did and he seems like he still cares and he said that he loved me and all im just so confused. I honestly think and his parents think its because of his band ever since he has been in it he just ended up making it his life and his number one and two of his friends are bad influences and his parents are really upset because they miss me and my daughter and they love us and they still want to see us and want us to visit them. And his mom was crying and gave me a huge saying she wishes some day i become her daughter in law. Well anyways iam not sure when he will talk to me idk what to do because i thought i blew it on halloween because his band had a show at the same place as my friends band and he didnt really think it was a good idea for me to go because he was afraid i was going to cause a scene and well after he played i tryed talking to him and he just freaked out yelling at me and so on monday his mom came over to talk to me because i was so upset about what happened and i was upset because he wrote to me saying he was on the fence of things until that happen so idk what the hell to do i love him we were together for almost 2years our 2 year is suppose to be this 11th coming up =/ and i have been talking to his mom and she said that she and his father talked to him and they said that he will contact you and they told him to comly talk to me bc. he does have a temper problem. And i just want him back even if he does have issues who doesnt? idk i really miss him and i feel like he was my soul mate and i feel like i mest up because he felt like things werent going to move forward b.c. i didnt have a job yet and i have been trying to find one but its just to dam hard now days to find one and we were suppose to move out together he gave me a promise ring for our one year and he said he has never done that before and iam his longest relationship so i need advice QUICK! on How to get him back because i really feel like and his parents feel like he is going backwards down a bad path again and i want him to see that iam here and iam going to be here and help him no matter what but idk i really want him back. Sorry i hope yous got some kind of sense of this. Right now i might be working at a hair salon soon and i just want to try to better my life and i want him to see some how iam positive and independent now i just want him back before i guess its to late….=/

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Seeing his exgf’s daughter…?

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I was talking to a neighbor yesterday and he informed me his roommate (and her two sons) were moving out of his apartment. She’s his exgf’s daughter. When she first moved in I asked if they were dating but they said they were only frds. I never believed it.

He confirmed last night things had gotten “more and more physical.” DUDE! DUH! Your exgf’s DAUGHTER?! What r u thnking? Nevermind the fact that the “roommate” has mental problems, can’t keep a job or a home and has 2 boys at impresionable ages.

He said, “All the women I told about it said its a really bad thing. But all the guys I asked say, "Whatever”. What?

Do guys REALLY think this is OK?

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How to end your ex back?

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I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried that and what are some ideas? I want him back..he moved so far away to take a job with his dad but we stayed together but he called and broke up with me over a month ago..I am 8 months pregnant..I am concentrating on my lil baby boy but I can’t but want him back also. He thinks I am dating someone and is calling more often but today we decided not to talk on the phone for awhile while we clear our heads. What steps do I take for him to realize what he is giving up? We are young 22&23..been together for 7 years. His dad walked out on him when he was a baby and my father did the same to me. I can’t help but feel like the same old patterns are repeating themselves. He has no family here but me and his son. He says he won’t move back here and that if we EVER get back together I would have to move there, which I would. Ideas?

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How to win your ex back?

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I was just wondering if anyone has ever tried that and what are some ideas? I want him back..he moved so far away to take a job with his dad but we stayed together but he called and broke up with me over a month ago..I am 8 months pregnant..I am concentrating on my lil baby boy but I can’t but want him back also. He thinks I am dating someone and is calling more often but today we decided not to talk on the phone for awhile while we clear our heads. What steps do I take for him to realize what he is giving up? We are young 22&23..been together for 7 years. His dad walked out on him when he was a baby and my father did the same to me. I can’t help but feel like the same old patterns are repeating themselves. He has no family here but me and his son. He says he won’t move back here and that if we EVER get back together I would have to move there, which I would. Ideas?

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How did you get your ex back when he broke up with you?

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My ex boyfriend is going through some stuff. He is having issues because hes 27 years old has no solid job and doesn’t know what he wants out of life. He left me to work on himself and figure out what he wants. How can I be sure to make him figure out that what he wants is me? Yeah, I know he sounds like a loser but I love him and I know that we had a very good relationship until he started having this identity crisis. Please explain how you got your man back and what you think I should do?

Thank you so much!

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How do you know that your marriage is really over?

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My husband and I have been married almost 4 years. During year 2, he made the statement to me that he only married me to shut me up. I have not been able to let that go. Moreover, he continues to talk to women on the internet and think nothing of it, so I met someone too. Now that the shoe is on the other foot, I don’t think that he likes it. I want to leave, but I can’t find a job to save my life. Now what?

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How can I win back my ex-girlfriend?

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Hey … well here’s the deal. My girlfriend and I have been dating pretty seriously since July of 2007, and we loved eachother soooo much. Then at right about our year anniversary, we decided to move out and get an apartment together. Everything was going fine and smooth until I got laid off from my job. I’ve been looking for work as best I can, but with the economy the way it is right now, it’s tough! I’ve been out of work for about 2 months now, and things were getting stressful. I was getting stressed out because I don’t feel right letting my woman take care of me, because if anything it should be the other way around. And I also am not very good at handling my stress, so I would often times take it out on her. And I would always feel terrible for doing it because it wasn’t her fault.

So yesterday, we were getting into an argument and I decided it was time to end this argument. So I tried playing around with her to lighten the mood. So while she was in the bathroom brushing her hair I went in there and turned on the shower and tried to pull her in, just to be funny and cute. Well I guess she has some strange phobia of water because she started crying and digging her finger nails into my hands. At this point I was bleeding and she was hurting me, and something took over and I ended up slapping her, just once though. It’s not like I’m a wife beater or anything, but I felt TERRIBLE about it. Then we go our separate ways for the day and she comes back and tells me that she wants to leave me. So I beg and plead with her not to go and to stay and talk things out with me. So she stays for the night and we talk all night, and then she goes to work this morning. Then when she got off, she went home to her parents house, and her and her mom and dad came over and took all of her stuff and left. I told her that I was ready to change and be the man she deserves, but she had her mind set.

So is there any way at all that I could possibly try and win her back. Any advice is welcome, and I thank you all.

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how to truly get over your ex boyfriend (work together, etc)?

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Really been struggling with this for months, and all the advice in the world from all my great friends isn’t really seeming to do anything.

Background:
My ex and I met through our job and quickly became really close friends. He liked me for a long time before I ever liked him in a romantic way. About a year and half after we had known each other, we started going on dates and nothing was too serious because I had to move out of town. I tried to distance myself from the situation, knowing I had to leave. Long story short, I moved away and he still liked me for months still texting me and calling me etc. I told him I had feelings but we both had to stop. After a year I decided to move back home for reasons unrelated to him and once I got home, we got together as a real couple.
Now, our relationship was really great at first and we were both having the happiest times of our lives. It ended shortly, within about 3 to 4 months for mostly reasons concerning our starkly different beliefs and his busy schedule, etc. I really loved him, and still do, but I knew that we had to break it off because with our differences, he was hurting me and it hurt him to see him hurting me. We decided to stay best friends, and real best friends, not just how couples say that and then never speak again.
The first few weeks after we broke up were very hard, but we still talked every day. Eventually we gradually stopped talking on the phone as much (besides seeing each other at work, which is also very hard.) I constantly gathered our friends together to try to maintain our friendship, but as time went on my ex seemed less and less inclined to be my friend right away. I asked him about this a few times, asking him to be open with me and tell me if he really did still want to stay friends and the first few times he said, "yes of course." the last conversation I had with him about it he was more honest saying that things will never be the same no matter what we do. he is pretty short with me at work most the time and he never initiates hanging out. i’ve tried to come to terms with the fact we can’t be the same as we were.
now, it’s been about 7 months since we broke up and some days i feel like im over him and some days it’s still pretty bad. When I see him with other people (especially girls, even though he’s not really dating any of them) I get very jealous and sad that I’m not a part of his life any more, I’m not one of his best friends like I used to be.
I’m turning into a crazy ex girlfriend, stalking his facebook page and finding info about this girl that I’ve concluded he has a crush on and has gone on a few dates with. He’s not the kind of guy who dates around or anything, and this girl looks nice and very pretty, but I get absolutely furious like someone is tearing my heart when I think about him with her and her replacing me.

I know it’s over. And it’s been over for a while. But I want to be truly happy for him. I want to get over this and be able to move on with my own life without having to seek attention from him, which I know is a longing for the past that I will never have again.

Sorry this is so long, but if you’ve stuck around enough to read all this, please lend me some advice. Thanks everybody!
I have gone a few weeks with no contact with him, but I still hear about him from coworkers/friends, or have to see him at work, or see his posts on facebook. I haven’t talk to him much at all the past month. I’m deactivating my facebook so I don’t have the urge to lurk his posts or who he talks to.

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How can i win my ex-wife back?

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I gave my ex a hell of a time for the 6 years she was with me.
We have 2 children together, and the whole time we were maried, i did not have a job.
I used to treat her so bad it was ridiculous.
I would go out drinking and using drugs and tell her she was the one that should head out the door.
then about 2 months after she seperated from me, i was involved in a car accident that would forever change my life.
I shattered my skull resulting in a 2 week coma, only to wake up to divorce papers.
I fought my way through the divorce and won 50% custody.
She loved this as she grew up without a father.
I have since quit all substances, held down a job, and worked my way through 1/3 of my bachelors degree.
She is very nice to me and we still exchange christmas presents.
How can i win her back and show her that i am ready to be what i should have been all along.

The only complicated thing is now she is popular and has many hot, tall men that try to date her.
We were divorced over 3 years ago.
Well i had a good talk with her, and she said that she just does not feel that she could ever trust me again.

I am ok with that and will just need to accept it.
Thanks for all the great answers though.

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Am I wrong to take HER to court?

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I got my exgf pregnant and treated her very bad afterwards, I broke up with her then began a new relationship. I ended up getting involved with her neighbors daughter and married her, now my wife is pregnant with my child. My child’s mother put up with all my BS for the sake of our son, I would hardly give her any money and gave her a very hard time about everything she did. I eventually crossed the line and the police got involved, I have no issue with saying it was all my fault. She is a great mother and has turned her life around, I like to think my tough love had something to do with it. I also have no job. She works for a major company and I hear that she is dating a stock broker. I am oddly bitter and jealous. I have not tried to contact her in 6 weeks and am consdering taking her to court so I can see my son. btw I did not sign the birth certifcate.

I probably sound like a real jerk, but I am who I am and I want to see my son. is it wrong to push a custody suit on her?