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Should I just drop him as a friend? Should I call him and be angry?

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There is this guy I used to date….he and I are just friends now because I he wasn’t ready for a relationship and I was getting tired of him being emotionally unavailable.

Last week he tells me that his friend from college, who is a girl is coming to visit him and that he would want to hang out with me and my friends as well. He asked me which night of the weekend would be good for me. I picked his brain a little bit about this person who is coming…then I asked if it was his ex girlfriend who was coming down…he said no, it was just a friend from college.

well the weekend came and went and he never called me. Then I go online to see that his exgf has left him a message saying that she had a lot of fun this weekend visiting blah blah…
So it was his ex…I just don’t know why he would offer to make plans with me if he knew if was his ex who was coming. WHy would he lie to me that his ex was coming to visit if we are just friends and have only been hanging out latelyas such?
I just don’t know why he would lie to me. Last weekend he did something for me that really saved me and then this past weekend he lies to me…

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Moving On…?

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My exgf and I broke up 1 1/2 years ago. We were together for 1 1/2 yrs. After our break up we would still keep in contact. She went on to date someone else and would call or text me because she needed attention or something. During this break up she continued to get mad at me for my mistakes and then would call to apologize and say she wants me back as her friend, but then would make "romantic" gestures. She finally stopped about a month ago when she started to date a new person. Now she wants to be just friends. I obviously still love her and want her back. She doesn’t want me back, but being her friend is hard…I feel i’m not being honest and a good friend when I harbor feelings for her. I’ve told her how I felt…and I get the feeling she likes the attention. What do I do to just get over it finally?

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Should I keep trying to save this relationship?

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My ex has a boyfriend and we’re just friends right now, but her boyfriend doesn’t like me (obviously). Should I keep trying to get back with her? What should I do?

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Why is my exgf so mean to me?

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My girlfriend of 4 years recently broke up with me due to personal reasons. She said that she really wanted to be friends so I was like fine. During the first week of the break up, I tried to get her back but she resisted, so I’ve come to terms with just friends for now. She still hangs out with me, and helps me with my schoolwork, but whenever I ask her to do anything she blows up and says "I don’t have to listen to you". I also bumped into her on my way to class and said hi, but she didn’t say hi back. When I asked her if something is wrong, she told me to stop complaining and shut up. I’ve been very nice to her and always remained nonchalant, but she says that I provoke her and told me to fk off basically.

So, why is she so moody? I don’t understand this behavior, any girls care to explain? This is baffling.
so like, do you think that she wants me back?

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How to get my ex boyfriend back?

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I have been trying to win back my ex boyfriend. He flirts with me all the
time and wants to hang out with me. First off, let me mention that he broke
up with me in November. We avoided eachother almost all November. I found
out from one of his friends that he broke up with me because I was being too
"clingy". After I heard that I asked my ex to meet me somewhere to talk. He
agreed. I told that I felt like he didn’t trust me, so that’s why I started
to hang out with him more in order to prove to him I’m loyal. It was
interesting cause after that he said he felt like that I didn’t trust him
either, so since late November to now we have gotten along really well. Even
though I know we "just friends" it doesn’t feel like that to me because like
I said he flirts with me and hangout with me alot.

I remember a few days ago we were talking about our friends, and he was
surpised when I told him one of our friends is back with that guy again. He
told me he thinks it’s impossible for people who were dating and then broke
up, dating AGAIN. So, then I said, "Would you ever get back with your ex?"
He said, "That would be very hard for me to do." Then I said, "Oh." He
replied, "But don’t worry I still love you."

Okay, basically what I want to ask if you ever get the chance is, what does
it mean when he says,"That would be very hard for me to do?" Does that mean
I have no chance in getting him back? Plus I’m having a Valentine’s Party
this weekend and I hope I can use my party to somehow get him back. Can you
help me?

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What should i do???

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well me and my crush talk on IM all the time and he just recently told one of his good friends that me and my crush were bf&gf which is not true. the only reason that i cant go out with my crush is cause my mom or dad dont want me to have a bf. anyways so now my crushs friend is telling all of my crush’s friends that me and my crush are bf&gf. i got really mad at my crush and he emailed me telling me that he told his friend that we broke up and are just friends which also isnt true. so should i have my crush tell his freinds that we never dated? or should they just live on the impression that my crush and i are exbf&exgf.

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A long distance relationship after divorce?

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What do you think about this: 4 people — exwife, exgf, man, and woman he’s now seeing in a LDR.

Woman has known a man for 20 years (since high school but never dated). Woman has been divorced about 6 years and almost hooked up with a man 3 years ago at a mutual friends wedding but he didn’t go through with it. His divorce was final in April. His wife of 15 years cheated on him. He has been in a very serious relationship for 14 months that hurt him deeply (baggage from the divorce process coinciding with trying to start this new relationship). He ended the relationship over a stressful fight a couple months before his divorce was final.

Woman visited his house in April for a few days and they started dating (long distance) in May. They have spent 3 weekends and one vacation together over the past 6 months. He lives in DC. She lives in Florida. Neither are able or willing to move because of their careers, where they want to live their lives, and most importantly, both have children and visitation with our exes that will keep them separated at least 6 years until the woman’s daughter goes to college.

Man still communicates with his exgf in a very neutral but friendly manner. When he dumped the exgf (8 months ago), it was over problems that he now sees in concrete actions have been resolved, but at the time, he was very clear they were over. He has said more recently to mutual friends that he loved the exgf very much (3 months ago) and will always have a piece of their relationship in his heart and he doesn’t want to forget that (2 weeks ago). He also says they are just friends. Their kids are good friends so he sees the exgf at least weekly in passing and they help each other with shuttling their kids to sporting events, etc.

The exgf was local and they spent almost every evening together and were a very intense, compatible couple. Timing was just awful. Woman in Florida is able to just be fun loving because she’s not around to have to deal with daily life and what the man needs in his life post divorce.

1) Is the woman in Florida a rebound? They’ve known each other 20 years and were attracted enough to each other to almost have an affair, so I think it’s not. Man is just trying to move on though he probably wasn’t over the exgf when he started dating woman.

2) Does this long distance relationship have a chance given neither is willing to move? What’s your guess on when it will fizzle?

3) Would trust issues be a problem since his exwife cheated on him and the woman in Florida tried to entice him into an affair a few years ago? Would a man "catch on" to that?

4) Is there a chance he might go back to the exgf? Man knows she was heartbroken over the breakup and still loves him even though she’s dating others casually. Would exgf not communicating with man anymore instead of being his friend make any difference?

5) What can the woman in Florida do to keep the man in the LDR with her?

Any comments are appreciated.

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My guy is bestfriends with his exgirlfriend who happens to be his bestfriend since day 1,can this be possible?

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sometimes i think something fishy is going on but what the heck, i trust my guy but it worries me more whenever i call him and he tells me he’s with his exgf which happens to be his bestfriend since they were kids but he reassures me that they’re just friends again and no biggie…i’m like what the hell is going on? but i believe him coz i trust him and i love him.

i’m really confused here…

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Please help, why do friends gossip about you and your mate?

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Im having a problem that my exgfs friends are talking crap about me and telling my exgf not to go back with me. Why are they getting into our business when its not their problem? They have been gossiping and crap that im a player type when i was seeing a lot of girls( just friends) over the past two years that we were apart. We are thinking about getting back together and her friends are just so annoying now.. My exgf defended me and say that im a nice guy to her friends. Just needed to vent. Why do ppl do this?

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Should I go or stay with my exgf?

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I don’t know the right thing to do as I have mixed feelings for my ex. Anger and Love all in tangled I still see her as my gf…which is sort of idoitic in a way. But I want to respect that she wants to just be best friends. I had been obessive sort of speak when I was her bf (just cared a lot) and I know she doesn’t want me to get hurt but, she wants me to stay. One time when I went away for a long time had pushed her away (long story…just wanted for the best thats all) I had worried her and made her really depressed. So I came back, I don’t know if she still cares deeply for me or not but, I sure know I do. Though she don’t show it anymore she has shown it in the past.

Now I’m just keeping distance. She had once asked, do you truly love me? I answered yes. she replied, Then you should let go. We both I relized were like caged birds. As my opioion though I was a caged bird I had a reason to live.
There are other times when I knew that I wouldn’t have her back in my life. As I saw one of her guy friends that was really close to her, she says their really simliar and that he was there for her when I wasn’t. So as I thought that this guy would be better then I was for her. So I told her that it was alright if she had feelings for him or anyone else. She had said, I don’t love him were just friends. I’m a bit confused on that. She has changed from the day we met when she was "weak" shy and timid, to this day she is now stronger as I watched over my exgf and helped in the past she sort of a childhood friend to me sort of speak. Now a days we get into arguements I try not to get it out of hand so we disagree. Sometimes she really distrust me for what I’ve done I know my mistakes want to make them up…but, it’s really hard for all the critizism I get from her.
I know I want to stay with her and I know she would want me to stay, or I think so.Had asked once "what do you truly and honestly want? do you want me to stay or go away forever" she only replied that’s your choice I already told you once…I know I want to do the right thing and also stay. So I guess the real question is what should I do?