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Would you rather be with your exgf or?

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Let’s say you had a GF for 5 years, lived with her, she had an abortion broke up with you, you moved on and now that you have a new GF for 1 year the ex-gf starts e-mailing you about how sad she feels about what you guys did to your unborn and how fast times goes by, remembering you were a couple 2 years ago and that you will always be in her heart…

How do you pic?
I’m the current GF but it worries me that she’s trying to get him back, making her self a victim of something that happened a long time ago… How will you feel??

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how do you get your ex back after not having been together for 3 months?

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well i still like my ex and you see… hes dating some ugly ass bitch and well, they dont seem very close or anything, ive never seen them kiss, and or hug at all so, i have no idea. its been a long time and i dont even know if he cares anymore, besides the fact that he stares at me…
lol i broke up with him

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HELP!! should i move on, try to get him back, or wait and see what happens between my Ex boyfriend and I?

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IM SO SORRY THIS IS LONG! Okay so my ex boyfriend has sent me so many mixed signs that he has moved on and still wants me. I asked about this in another question. Well it’s the end of summer and the c/o 2011 has gone off to college including my ex. well for his birthday back in july, (i rode my bike for three hours, 15.7 miles to his house and paid dollars to get home by cab) i gave him all the things i never gave him when we were still together and a four page front and back letter about how i truly feel about him, how i want him back, i miss him, i still love him with all of my heart and everything. i also said i hope the girl you’re going to ask to be your girlfriend treats you well and makes you happy while you’re in college.( he told me a long time ago before this that he didn’t like me after i confessed to him that i still liked him bc he likes another girl but then a week later he says he doesn’t want a girlfriend until graduate school) but after this letter, he told me it was so sweet and that he wanted to talk to me about some things that needed to be discussed. unfortunately through miscommunication it didn’t happen. i still visited his family and kept in touch. about two weeks later it was his little sister’s birthday and i walked an hour to his house to give his sister a present. i didn’t know the older little sister wasn’t home and that his parent’s weren’t home though his sister said she was there. when i walked to the door, my ex boyfriend opened it and was surprised to see me bc he was expecting his best friend to come over to hang out because two days later my ex would be going to college. now before i continue, lets rewind [ about a week and a half before this, i was touring a college and randomly i got a text from my ex saying, "i had a dream about you " i was shocked because he actually communicated with me! i was sooo happy! he slept over my house for his birthday in 2010 and that's what he dreamed about except in both real life and in the dream, we had sex. i know this sounds so bad but im leaving out a lot of details that makes this sound not as bad ( in real life his sisters and my brother and sister were all together but then we snuck away while everyone was sleeping so anyways, the whole night we texted each other about how we miss being with each other and having sex and touching and stuff but i felt uncomfortable about it bc we aren't a couple. he felt the same but not like me.] going back to the other story of how i unexpectedly showed up at his house, i dropped off the presents and said goodbye to his little little sister (it was the older little sister who wasn’t there) then he said "wait i’m not going to see you for a long time because im leaving soon. do you want to hang out for a while? maybe watch some tv?" i said yes bc im thinking well what do i have to lose? so we watched the beginning of The Office but then started to drift away from it. now remember, his best friend is coming soon. i noticed him smiling and laughing at random times when the show wasn’t trying to be funny and i asked him uhh what’s up? he said "well, you’re wearing shorts… and i can see your legs… uhhh sorry!" i laughed cuz that means he wants to put his hand on my leg cuz that’s just what he always does so i was worried a little later because i shouldn’t be there bc his friend is coming and natually he puts his hand on my leg and says please don’t go! please stay! it’s okay i know i blushed and said okay. we stared into each other’s eyes, then he asked if i was nervous. i said yes, asked him the same and he said yes. we got close and he asked if i would sit on his lap one more time and kiss him one last time. i waited for that moment for eight months now!(to kiss him i mean) i said yes and we were making out.he also wanted to ‘touch’ me but i started my period that day so it was a no.then the doorbell rang O.O my ex helped me up and hugged me but then he kissed me this time. i also touched his you-know-what… so skipping past the hello to his friend and walking out the door saying bye, as i was going he said that i should visit him in college (im in12th) and that he’ll miss me. i said" i’d say the same but i’ve missed you for 8months now." he said, "i have too.. idk if you care but im taking the ceramic box that says i love you and that has my name on it with me when i go to college." we barely talked from then on and he’s in college now. it seems like he just wants my body, but his dad told me it’s bc he doesn’t want to get attached to me and leave me all alone. my ex thinks that i’ll go crazy if i don’t see him for months but i’d be fine bc i trust him. once i graduate i’ll be going to FSU and my ex is at UF. does this mean it’s impossible for anything to happen? even though it may seem

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How do you get your ex-boyfriend back?

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I broke up with my boyfriend like A LONG time ago and I’m still in love. What should I do ?

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How can you get your ex boyfriend back if you are in middle school? Ten points for the best answer!?

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Hi I am new to asking questions here. My ex boyfriend and I are eighth graders, well not anymore we graduated and are going to be freshmen this fall. We started dating in April. He broke up with me because of the summer, he said I will never see him and that I deserve better, someone I can see all the time. So he dumped me two days ago. We have only dated a month and a half, but I fell in love with this boy. I know I may seem young and all but I truly care about him. He is 15, I on the other hand am 13. Though we’re in the same grade. We have super fun together. He is sweet, funny, and makes me feel like im walking on air. I really dnt want us to be over, he means way to much to me.
I already wrote him a small paragraph on a facebook message, telling him how much I will miss him. He responded saying, he did what he thought was right for the both of us. He still wants to do stuff with me and talk. But he is going to be busy all summer, trips and football camp. (That’s why he broke up with me)
I am really going to missss him so much. I just can’t let us be over. Also his mom really likes me, that doesnt really matter in this situation, its just I feel like i lost something that could of lasted a long time over something stupid like the summer. What should I do? I am so very confused and I need some help. He doesn’t have crushes on girls to offten, and he said he still likes me (That’s why he did it). So um what should I do?! Please help me, that would be awesome!

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How to win your ex back?

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My ex boyfriend and I broke up in May. We still had contact from then to now. A few weeks ago he DJ’d my cousins sweet 16 party, where he told me he still loves me and loves being with me and how much he misses me, and when we were together how perfect it was. We broke up because we fought too much, which we did because of his friends, who he no longer is close to. I am still in love with him and want to be with him the problem is he has a girlfriend and I just started dating this boy. I love him, but I like my boyfriend now, but I would much rather be with my ex which is why I am breaking up with new boy. My ex loves me but likes his girlfriend also and hes afraid to breakup with her. I am so confused as to what to do next and what to say. Help please?!
my new guy also has been with me for a few weeks and it feels like we are just friends. we have been talking for a long time but when were together the hasnt even tried kissing me, holding my hand, putting his arm around me…nothing.

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how to truly get over your ex boyfriend (work together, etc)?

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Really been struggling with this for months, and all the advice in the world from all my great friends isn’t really seeming to do anything.

Background:
My ex and I met through our job and quickly became really close friends. He liked me for a long time before I ever liked him in a romantic way. About a year and half after we had known each other, we started going on dates and nothing was too serious because I had to move out of town. I tried to distance myself from the situation, knowing I had to leave. Long story short, I moved away and he still liked me for months still texting me and calling me etc. I told him I had feelings but we both had to stop. After a year I decided to move back home for reasons unrelated to him and once I got home, we got together as a real couple.
Now, our relationship was really great at first and we were both having the happiest times of our lives. It ended shortly, within about 3 to 4 months for mostly reasons concerning our starkly different beliefs and his busy schedule, etc. I really loved him, and still do, but I knew that we had to break it off because with our differences, he was hurting me and it hurt him to see him hurting me. We decided to stay best friends, and real best friends, not just how couples say that and then never speak again.
The first few weeks after we broke up were very hard, but we still talked every day. Eventually we gradually stopped talking on the phone as much (besides seeing each other at work, which is also very hard.) I constantly gathered our friends together to try to maintain our friendship, but as time went on my ex seemed less and less inclined to be my friend right away. I asked him about this a few times, asking him to be open with me and tell me if he really did still want to stay friends and the first few times he said, "yes of course." the last conversation I had with him about it he was more honest saying that things will never be the same no matter what we do. he is pretty short with me at work most the time and he never initiates hanging out. i’ve tried to come to terms with the fact we can’t be the same as we were.
now, it’s been about 7 months since we broke up and some days i feel like im over him and some days it’s still pretty bad. When I see him with other people (especially girls, even though he’s not really dating any of them) I get very jealous and sad that I’m not a part of his life any more, I’m not one of his best friends like I used to be.
I’m turning into a crazy ex girlfriend, stalking his facebook page and finding info about this girl that I’ve concluded he has a crush on and has gone on a few dates with. He’s not the kind of guy who dates around or anything, and this girl looks nice and very pretty, but I get absolutely furious like someone is tearing my heart when I think about him with her and her replacing me.

I know it’s over. And it’s been over for a while. But I want to be truly happy for him. I want to get over this and be able to move on with my own life without having to seek attention from him, which I know is a longing for the past that I will never have again.

Sorry this is so long, but if you’ve stuck around enough to read all this, please lend me some advice. Thanks everybody!
I have gone a few weeks with no contact with him, but I still hear about him from coworkers/friends, or have to see him at work, or see his posts on facebook. I haven’t talk to him much at all the past month. I’m deactivating my facebook so I don’t have the urge to lurk his posts or who he talks to.

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How do you break up with a nice guy?

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How do you break up with someone who you’ve dated a long time and is your best friend? I want to break up with my boyfriend because the romantic/physical aspect of our relationship has been missing for about a year, despite all my attempts to rekindle it. I don’t want to break his heart, and I really want to be friends (even if it takes a while). How can I break up with him graciously?

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winning back ex?

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I badly need some advice on my situation. I recently realized that I do still have feelings for my ex. We have a child together. We have not really been a “couple” for some time now, though we still lived together since financially it made sense, and it was better for our child. This summer he moved out though, and though he wasn’t trying to find someone to date, he met someone and they are seeing each other and really like each other. In the time we have spent living apart, I have done a lot of thinking and realized how badly I treated him and a lot of areas where I went wrong. It wasn’t all me, but I can now admit to the problems I had and how stubborn I was. I can see how I need to change. With that realization also came the realization that I still have feelings for my ex. I thought things were over and that I could move on, but obviously that isn’t the case. I’m shocked to discover how I feel, I really didn’t think I would feel this way. It’s also really bad timing, because now he is seeing someone else. I have told him how I feel, and he listened to what I had to say. But, he said he felt that things were over between us a long time ago, which is why he moved on. We both said hurtful things and argued and thought that it was over back then. He really likes this new girl and would like to see where things go with that relationship. I can’t really argue with that, because I pushed him away, things were over, and he had every right to find someone else. I think that if he wasn’t seeing this girl he would maybe be more open to what I was saying, but the fact that he is in another relationship really complicates things. I’m really confused about how I feel and what I should do. Do I wait to see if his new relationship lasts? What can I do to win him back? I don’t know if I have any chance, and I certainly know I don’t deserve one. Has anyone else been in this situation that can offer some advice?

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What would be a reason to break up with someone after dating 3 years?

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3 years is a long time… but obviously people who have been dating that long have broke up before. What are some reasons couples would break up if they are really in love for all that time?