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How can I get my ex boyfriend back?

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Is it possible to get your ex back if they are still engaging with you, but it still seems hopeless? How can I get him back? The ending was very complicated as his dad become very ill. I think he just gave up on us so he had one less thing to deal with. What can I do to get this person back? Is it possible? We talked about marriage and a family, a new home, all of it.
What do I do?

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would you be willing to try save your marriage after finding out your hubby has had an affiar?

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ok so i was seeing a married man we were sleeping with each other for near enough a year and a half
it ended over a year ago now last time i saw him was over a yaer ago however
iv recently message him via the facebook website
just to ask how things were going and if he was ok
was just a polite message b ut the next day to messageing him id been out with friends and got very DRUNK…
therefore i messaged him once again telling him i missed not seeing him
i later got a message saying sorry do i no you inplieing hed had no other messages i know its his wife messageing me back he wouldt put such a thing so now his wife knows of his little secret but shes is not away that we were seeing each other for over a year

theres probably hell on within thier house hold at the moment
i really shouldnt of messaged him should i
i wish id of let well alone i was wrong of me i know!!
but do u thing they will work through it could you try save your marriage after finding out his been haveing an affair??
or will this be the end……
i think they have been married over ten years now
so i really dont no what the future holds for them both now?

could you forgive??

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If you won your ex-boyfriend back, how did you do it? ?

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It has been one month since my ex boyfriend broke up with me over some trust issues I had with him.

He was previously married for 9 years and has only been divorced for almost a year now. Before me, he dated another woman for 5 months and he broke up with her the same way he did with me; he withdrew emotionally, physically and picked fights with her then broke up with her over the phone. He told me he did this once he realized he was no longer in love with her.

I know he probably broke up with me because he is probably rebounding from being married for so long. I don’t think he’s dealing with the emotional aftermath of getting divorced in the best way, by dating women so soon after the end of his marriage.

But I can’t help wonder if I can successfully win him back, even though he broke up with me.

I emailed him last week and asked him to meet with me to talk but he sent me an email back refusing:

"I understand meeting to clear the air but honestly I do not see us getting back together. Honestly, there are too many things that I need to work through and I just don’t see us being togther. With that being said I don’t think that I will be seeing you today. Sorry."

So, what do you think? Should I keep trying or just give up?

We’re both in our late 30s by the way.

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Would you have an abortion to save your marriage?

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I’m 19 years old, my husband is 21 (almost 22). Right now he’s in the Air Force Reserve, hopefully going full time. He wanted me to get pregnant, I told him how awful the timing would be…but he still insisted. I love kids, especially babies…so I really didn’t mind. Even though I plan on breast feeding, trying to use cloth diapers and maybe getting a job at a daycare so i could work and still take care of our child…but he still insists we can’t afford it. Medical expenses before or after the baby is born, really isn’t an issue. Tri care would cover it all, bc he’s on orders and is taking some classes for his job which give him the same benefits of an active duty airman. Then after he had nothing else to complain about, he said neither of us (meaning the baby and myself) are healthy enough for it. I’m plenty healthy…he just thinks I eat unhealthy. I’m not overweight and I really don’t eat bad things…he’s just mad bc I don’t specifically eat what he wants me to. Anyways, he informed me today that if I didn’t get an abortion, we were going to separate. His idea of separating was me living with him, paying half the bills, and taking care of the baby entirely by myself. So, of course, this way he could see it. I’m 14 weeks pregnant, btw. I really can’t do this by myself, but I left him earlier. I packed all my stuff and left, bc no matter how hard I try…I don’t think I could deal with abortion. But I already miss him soo much, I can barely breathe, I keep making myself sick, I just want to be with him. All this stress couldn’t be good for the baby either…he said he wants to have a baby later, just not right now. But I’m just wondering, would you have an abortion to save your marriage, knowing you would have another chance at having another baby? The thought kills me…but being without him hurts me even more somehow. What am I supposed to do? I really don’t think he’s considering adoption…but I’m not sure which would hurt me more; abortion, having a baby and giving it to a stranger and never seeing it again, having an open adoption, but never get to take care of it…or asking a family member to adopt and having to see it often, but never actually having it all to myself…I’m just so confused…I’m too young to have to make these decisions. I don’t think it’s fair to punish our child for a choice that we made, for a baby we wanted. But how is it fair for the baby to grow up knowing his father didn’t want him? or her. I want this baby so bad, I’ve put up with the worst morning sickness for this baby…but I love my husband so much. I’m so scared that either way i’ll hate myself and end up failing.
I know it’s a sensitive subject, I just want honest opinions of what ppl would do if they were in my situation. If your spouse gave you an ultimatum like that, what would you choose? People can judge me all they want to, either way I’ll hate myself in the end. I think we’re going to try adoption…we talked a little. My aunt has two daughters but got her tubes tied…her and her fiance want a boy but would probably be happy either way. So we might ask her…hopefully she’ll say yes…
ha okay "wazzyrobin". sounds like something only a crazy person would come up with. way to be a total b****. I didn’t say i was going through with it, I didn’t say I wouldn’t. I’m going to try for an open adoption with a family member. Do you think I want to even be considering this? This boy has put me through hell numerous times, I know his arrogant butt won’t leave me again bc the last time he tried that he begged me to come back the second I was gone. He really can’t live without me…but I also know that he wouldn’t help support the baby after it’s born, he wouldn’t help take care of it, I couldn’t bare to have him touch my child with his attitude towards it. He wants me to pay for it all, take care of it completely on my own but still live with him so he can see the baby when it’s convenient to him. Believe me I know how much of a douchebag he’s being…I love him nonetheless. I am miserable without him.

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HOW CAN I THANK THIS MAN WHO SAVED MY MARRIAGE?

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i just want to share my experience how i got my ex back and saved my marriage.. i was married for 10years with 3 kids and we lived a happy life.. until things started getting ugly and we had fights and arguments… it got heated that at a point, she filed for divorce.. i tried everything to get her back cos i loved her with all my heart and didnt want to loose her…she moved out of the house and left the kids..and then filed for divorce…i pleaded,and tried everything ..nothing worked..until someone introduced me to this wonderful spell caster who helped me out.. i never believed in those things but just decided to try reluctantly…he did special prayers and used roots and herbs..within 3 days, she called me and was pleading..i didnt believe my ears..anyways we are happy together now and have a nice life.. the kids are happy..ive introduced him to a lot of couples with problems accross the world and they have had good news..i just want to share my experience.. incase anyone needs this man, you can email him on DIVINESOLUTION72 at yahoo dot com….hope you get good news as well..wish you all the best…dont give up..save your marriage/relationship

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How to save your marriage and the man you love?

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I really have a situation here. I have never cheated on my husband and he has never cheated on me. But we have been separated for almost 2 months now. We have been married almost 10 years. But somehow over the years we just took each other for granted. Apparently he was feeling neglected and I was too. He was the one who left and now he want even talk to me. He says he hates me and he wants a divorce. We both were married previously. I have no children from my marriage, but he has 2 boys. The oldest one is of age and has baby #3 on the way. He will not work and he only talks to his dad if he wants something. Son #2 is not biologically his child. His first wife had an affair and now they have a son from it. I wanted to adopt, we couldn’t have children. My husband didn’t. So this bothered me alot. He says I hate his kids, but I don’t. I don’t like the way they use him. What do I do, to show him I love him & need him? That our marriage will work if we both try. Help?

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How did you get your ex back when he broke up with you?

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My ex boyfriend is going through some stuff. He is having issues because hes 27 years old has no solid job and doesn’t know what he wants out of life. He left me to work on himself and figure out what he wants. How can I be sure to make him figure out that what he wants is me? Yeah, I know he sounds like a loser but I love him and I know that we had a very good relationship until he started having this identity crisis. Please explain how you got your man back and what you think I should do?

Thank you so much!

Im posting in marriage/divorce to get advice here too because I only got a few answers in singles/dating
Tiff, I understand what you mean but its not just "not having a good job". Its a complete life meltdown with depression and everything because he is frustrated with nothing being what he wants and I guess I just got the short end of the stick. Plus he is so indecisive he did this with one of his ex’s and then got back with her later! I still love the crazy and I just have this feeling that it will be meant to be.

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How do you know if your marriage is worth saving?

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My husband and I have been married almost 4 years. It has been a rough 4 years but we have weathered many storms together. There have been fights and arguments and other stuff. He has been unfaithful in the past but I forgave him and gave him a second chance because I love my husband and I value my marriage. We were rushed into getting married. When I was introduced to his family, he and I had it set in our minds to get married 18 months from the time he proposed which would have been around mid-2009. His family said that if we were serious we should get married right away and his mother threw together a wedding in like 3 weeks. It was not what I wanted and was not happy with how things went. My husband, however, comforted me and told me that it didn’t matter to him because I was now his wife. Now, my husband is 7 years my junior. In the beginning, I didn’t want to even talk to him because he was so much younger than me but we had a lot in common. We took this quiz about can your marriage be saved. It didn’t turn out like I thought. I just don’t know what to do. How do you know if you can save your marriage? How do you know if your marriage is even worth saving? I really need some help with this. I love my husband very much. He has a problem with expressing his emotions or whatever so I really don’t know what he feels or thinks. Somebody, please help me!!

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If you have failed as a wife how do you save your marriage….?

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After many years of marriage, I realize that it is me and not him that failed to do my part. Unfortunately his heart has wondered toward another. We are still married, what can I do besides apologize and ask for another chance? I’ve done that, but he won’t give me any clear sign whch way he is headed….

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Can having an affair save your marriage?

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No i have not had an affair and I am not married. I read an article, http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/northamerica/usa/2095967/Why-having-an-affair-could-save-your-marriage.html
about how having an affair can save your marriage and I wanted to know what people think. I think it’s absurd but do you think it can save a marriage?