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How can I win back my ex?

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ok so my ex and I were together for 9 months and we became really close friends. 4 days ago he broke up with me saying that he thought of me as his best friend but that was it. he was very concerned that he didn’t want to lose me as a best friend. even as he broke my heart he insisted that he would be there for me if i need to talk (i’m having some issues with my family) I am very much in love with him and hate the idea of just being friends…now i see all these advice websites saying that if I’m kind of aloof i could win him back. is this true? any other suggestions for winning him back? I think part of the reason he broke up with me is because I was pretty dependent on him. Maybe if I act like I’m perfectly fine he’ll start to question if he made a mistake. if this doesn’t work I know I should accept him as a friend and move on but i don’t wanna give up if there’s any chance we can be together again.

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i need help on winning back an ex girlfriend?

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How do you show an ex that you are serious about her? and that you will do anything to get her back, but mostly how do you win her trust back after its been broken?
dont tell me to move on because i wont, i knwo she still loves me, i just need some advice as to how to win her trust back and show her that i am really serious about us and want to work things out
i broke her trust by flirting and lying, but i have been faithful ever since, and i will do anything to get her back in my arms. i know i made a mistake but i am willing to do whatever it takes to win her back, i know she still loves me as well… she said she still has a "fear" and that she doesnt trust me at all. so i want to earn her trust back

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What does it mean when your ex boyfriend texts you this message?

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My ex boyfriend and i are no longer in our relationship for 10 wks now, but monday after noon, he text me by saying: i sent the last message by mistake sorry. I meant to dial my number…
I never got any message from him in the first place, could it be possible that he accidently did make a mistake? Help??

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How to bring the magic back into a relationship after a break up?

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My boyfriend recently broke up with me during a moment of anger and a few hours later realized that he made a mistake. I accepted his apology, but now my feelings aren’t the same as they were before. I don’t feel the same magic that I did prior to the break up. How do I get those feelings back?

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How to win back an ex and regain lost trust?

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I was with an amazing girl since senior year of high school we were together 3.5 years, being that is started in high school we were both pretty immature, we went through a lot of hard times together a bad instance in high school before we were dating (not between us) but dealt with both of us, went through college together, and then i joined the army and am currently deployed, i love her more then anything and during the time we were together we had rough times as well as amazing times but we split apart twice and almost immediately got back together which was a mistake, i convinced her that we both needed to work on certain things and things would be better but they weren’t because we never took the appropriate steps to change things, she doesn’t trust me anymore because things never changed and i always told her things would be better, we broke up the day before i deployed because she had saw i looked at an ex girlfriends profile , which yes i know was dumb and i had absolutely no reasoning as to why i did it, im about 3 months into deployment and we didnt talk for most of it, now we have started talking and have been building a friendship in which we didnt have much of while we were dating, she knows i am still looking for it to go somewhere eventually but we arent going to rush it, she is not expecting it to but gives suttle hints like we will see how things are later and we will work on things when you can actually be home (when im out of the army) i want to prove to her i am ready to make things work for real and i will do anything to make it happen, what is the best way to approach this situation without coming on to hard but letting her know i am serious and i still care for her more than anything?

since im deployed i obviously cant see her unless i skype with her which i dont, but i instant message her and send texts to her phone from the instant messenger, i drop hints showing i am thinking of her and that i still care for her, but i dont think its enough, any serious thoughts?

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What are some nicer ways i can break up with my boyfriend with?

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ok my boyfriend and i were together for a year and five months, and then we broke up for about a month and i think i made a mistake getting back together with him. i thought i still loved him but i dont. i actually cant stand him. hes not a very good boyfriend. but i want to break up with him really bad, i just dont know how. any ideas?

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I can't seem to move onto new relationship after a breakup help!?

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i left my exgf (first love) after a big fight. I had it with 3 years of jealousy and i felt i wasn’t happy (she never seem to want to exercise with me or lose weight together, most of the time we just eat out). I didn’t realize that I was going after aI a girl while still in the relationship here studying aboard. I realized I made a mistake after 1 month, because I am about to leave soon at the end of the year. What’s worst is that I’ve slept with the new girl (she was a virgin) thinking it was the best way to move on. But I can’t now.

My exgf and I , I felt we were not meant to be, maybe that’s why I am not happy. But it was not right to just go on and cheat on her. I broke up with the new girl(she was in total shocked because I had her fall in love with me, and i was at the moment in love with her perhaps because I was taking anger out on her because of my recent fight). I will love to make things right for the new girl, but how do I get past the last relationship?

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I Got my ex back, and now I feel so so bad.?

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I was with my girlfriend for 1.5 years. There were many many times when I was unbelievably mean to her, yet I can say that I had the best time of my life with her and she felt the same. She broke up with me 3 weeks ago and that was when I realized I couldn’t live without her, and how bad I was. Everywhere I looked I saw her, I remembered the good times and I remembered the bad (mostly when I was bad). I know I did more good than bad, but the bad was really bad.

Everyone told me that you’ll get through it but after the 3 weeks I actually felt worse as I realised how much I depended on her for help, care and someone to talk to when in need. I always had nightmares before but when I call her before I go to bed it seems to stop the nightmares, and when she sleeps over or I sleep over at hers it feels so great, just me and my babe. I realize now that she is my everything. My business wasn’t doing as well as I hoped, but I didn’t care because when I had her I felt like I had everything I wanted.

I made so many rules that she went crazy. At one point I told her she couldn’t talk to any guys and one day a friend of mine said he said ‘hi’ to my girlfriend (obviously since he knows her, its rude to not say hi) and she just passed by as if she was ignoring him. I then told her what he said and she said that its because I said that she can’t talk to other guys. I felt so bad about it since I felt like I was treating her as a toy BUT I was so stupid to forget to tell her that saying hi and having small talk is perfectly fine with me. That was one of the reasons why wanted to break up, because she was being treating like a toy and I realize this now.

Another example when I was so mean was when she was helping me fit hardwood flooring in my place. I yelled so many times at her while we were doing it, even when it was my mistake. I think she burst into tears about 5-6 times during the process as I got really frustrated fitting the flooring and lashed it out on her. She loved me so much that she said that it doesn’t matter how much I shout at her she’ll always love and be with me. I feel so bad just typing this, I can’t believe I was so mean. I can’t believe I was being so mean to a girl that meant everything to me

One more example was when she was taking an exam for a course she’s doing at college. She had 2 exams, one at 1pm and one at 4pm. Because of the long gap she wanted to see me, so I picked her up after her 1st exam to spend time with her and then dropped her off just before 4pm for her next exam. She said that it would be 30 minutes so I could either go and she’ll take the bus home, or wait for her to finish. I decided to wait. I waited about 1 hour and 10 minutes and when she came I basically got so mad and yelled so hard she again burst out crying and wanted to get out and take the bus home. I then said "oh great, I’ve already waited over an hour for you and NOW you want to get the bus". The whole time on the way back home I was yelling at her, and she was crying. Right now I wished she slapped me at that time so I would realize that I was being incredibly mean. I feel so bad about it that I wished I could redo everything. Again, I feel so bad just typing this.

The great thing is she TOOK ME BACK yesterday. I couldn’t believe it I was so happy. But now I feel so bad because I remember all the horrible things I did. When she took me back, I started to cry after a few minutes, and then again after an hour as I remember how horrible I was. Today, I cried when I got up because I remembered how horrible I was.

She says that although she’s taking me back, she doesn’t love me anymore. She’s actually changed dramatically in the 3 weeks we were not together to a completely different person. She’s no longer caring, she no longer laughs and talks in the adorable way she once did, she no longer says the most adorable things in the world and I can see that she isn’t the same sweet loving caring girl I had. She’s actually a little bitchy now which makes me so sad because before I could have easily mistaken her for an angel. I know that I can get her love for me back, because to be honest I find it very hard to do anything without her love. I hope I can make her turn back into the sweet and wonderful girl she once was. Do you think this is possible?

When I first met her she was like an average girl, but after about a month she suddenly changed into the wonderful girl she was. Her smile actually changed because when I met her she smiled as if she was in a photo shoot and after being a month together she smiled as if she didn’t care how she looked and was genuinely happy. I compared the pictures of us together there definitely is a difference.

I’ve dated many girls and this one is the one. I ruined her and would do ANYTHING to get her back to the way she was. Do you guys think this is possible, o

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How to get your ex-boyfriend back, when he hates you?

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Ok, so my boyfriend broke up with me because I couldn’t trust him and always freaked out when he talked to other girls. I know, I’m psycho. But I’ve changed. So at a game, I got drunk. And I told him I hated him, slapped him, and told him that his "package" was small and crooked. But I was drunk! I made a huge mistake, and I regret it so much.
So I want him back, but he hates me. So please help me, I’m in love with him. How do I get him back?

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My exgf wants to work things out with me, but i am with a new girl?

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We broke up after I got really mad for her to control me and not trust me when we were in a long distance. I know i just made a mistake by hooking up with a new girl too soon (within 3 weeks of, i guess i was mad, angry , and sad and she was there when i needed her) , gave her her first kiss and everything. Made her really happy. Soon I realize I miss my Exgf (first love) very much and I just ended the relationship with the new girl, telling her all the truth…so I can have time to think and time alone for myself.

It hurts to know that I’ve used her, and I have sleepless nights. My exgf knows that I’ve been places with the new girl, . I want to work things out, there were good times. The only thing I am afraid now is going back and because I been unfaithful once, I would be the one who has to prove myself. Or in a mist of arguement, she would argue with me about my experience with the new girl. So help. I still miss and think about her even if i am with the new girl.
I am 25. currently oversea studying