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Order of events in my life so far this year HELP!!?

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OK sit back get your popcorn and soon your going to be shaking your head telling me how damn dumb I am but to me, I have an obligation to my wife, She knows it she hides because of her choices and well you make the call. I will call this 101 WAYS NOT TO TRY & SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE……Story goes like this. I met my wife 6 1/2 years ago and from the second I lay eyes on her I knew she was to be my wife.. I seriously had seen her in my dreams for years. She and I were perfect. We completed each other and in our own special ways we were each others saviors. My wife had two beautiful little girls who were 1 and 4 years old. Her ex was always an a** and pretty much from day one I had me a very big responsiblity. I had a great job, made about ,000 year however I traveled all over the country. I ran a concrete construction crew. I was 28 when we met she was 26. She has a good job at 000 so money never was an issue. Back in 06 I decided that my family was more important than traveling . I dove into the wonderful world of owning my own company. Its been good up until about two years ago, we baught a flip house to remodel and sell over the winter, Alright enough bull sh** long story short I was absent to busy working to get ahead, I became distant with my wife as she the same with me. we started to pay attention to each others faults instead of what we loved in each other. I see it now. Well we had reached a breaking point at tyhe beginning of feb. She had enough and well I had also. However It didnt take long for me to realize that being with her and the girls was more important than working all the time. She moved into the flip house and I couldnt stop her. I tried everything, went to counceling they put me on Lexipro I was doing everything I needed to make it work. She however just got more and more pissed and bitchy. I didnt understand I was there to be a family I took all the blame for the way we were. Although she was just as bad, I didnt care about the stupid small stuff any more. I was a wreck. I didnt want her to go. Everyone kept telling me to let her go, she will get lonely she will come to you. I knew better. I saw it as she was already lonely, I worked all the time and was never home and if I did nothing like everyone said that was what she had figured. I knew she had no idea what I really turned into. I didnt. I had hit rock bottom. I found myself in my house my empty house a house I fely as if I built it just for them and now its empty and they are gone. I cry even today about it. About 12 days into it I could not get out of the deapest depression I had ever come to. I found myself sitting in my truck bawling for hours. I was serious need of help I looked to my wife for that. She was always there for me before. Now just a blank face telling me to go home and get some sleep. How could she be so cruell. Total discount of what I had done for her and the girls. I started to see a fear develope in her out of noplace, I had never touched her or ever even threatend her. Her mom was coaching her telling her all this crazy lifetime movie bull. I find out the Lexipro crap was going the wrong way for my brain it was making me sad not happy. She got a no-contact order, no assault ever, I had 3 violations by the time we went to court and the judge forced me into a consent no contact order if I didnt I would have to do 21 days in jail. Oh there is so much more , duel no contact orders , jail for her more for me, stolen cars, doors getting kicked in, dog getting tazzer by cops, swat team, hospital, crooked lawyers nad bias judges . I have been screwed, All in all 54 days in jail for total 11 violations of which five I did. I am this close to going postal.

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The ride i didnt ever want to get on, my life?

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Order of events in my life so far this year HELP!!?
OK sit back get your popcorn and soon your going to be shaking your head telling me how damn dumb I am but to me, I have an obligation to my wife, She knows it she hides because of her choices and well you make the call. I will call this 101 WAYS NOT TO TRY & SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE……Story goes like this. I met my wife 6 1/2 years ago and from the second I lay eyes on her I knew she was to be my wife.. I seriously had seen her in my dreams for years. She and I were perfect. We completed each other and in our own special ways we were each others saviors. My wife had two beautiful little girls who were 1 and 4 years old. Her ex was always an a** and pretty much from day one I had me a very big responsibility. I had a great job, made about ,000 year however I traveled all over the country. I ran a concrete construction crew. I was 28 when we met she was 26. She has a good job at 000 so money never was an issue. Back in 06 I decided that my family was more important than traveling . I dove into the wonderful world of owning my own company. Its been good up until about two years ago, we bought a flip house to remodel and sell over the winter, Alright enough bull sh** long story short I was absent to busy working to get ahead, I became distant with my wife as she the same with me. we started to pay attention to each others faults instead of what we loved in each other. I see it now. Well we had reached a breaking point at the beginning of feb. She had enough and well I had also. However It didn’t take long for me to realize that being with her and the girls was more important than working all the time. She moved into the flip house and I couldn’t stop her. I tried everything, went to counseling they put me on Lexi pro I was doing everything I needed to make it work. She however just got more and more pissed and bitchy. I didn’t understand I was there to be a family I took all the blame for the way we were. Although she was just as bad, I didn’t care about the stupid small stuff any more. I was a wreck. I didn’t want her to go. Everyone kept telling me to let her go, she will get lonely she will come to you. I knew better. I saw it as she was already lonely, I worked all the time and was never home and if I did nothing like everyone said that was what she had figured. I knew she had no idea what I really turned into. I didn’t I had hit rock bottom. I found myself in my house my empty house a house I fely as if I built it just for them and now its empty and they are gone. I cry even today about it. About 12 days into it I could not get out of the deepest depression I had ever come to. I found myself sitting in my truck bawling for hours. I was serious need of help I looked to my wife for that. She was always there for me before. Now just a blank face telling me to go home and get some sleep. How could she be so cruel Total discount of what I had done for her and the girls. I started to see a fear develop in her out of no place, I had never touched her or ever even threatened her. Her mom was coaching her telling her all this crazy lifetime movie bull. I find out the Lexipro crap was going the wrong way for my brain it was making me sad not happy. She got a no-contact order, no assault ever, I had 3 violations by the time we went to court and the judge forced me into a consent no contact order if I didn’t I would have to do 21 days in jail. Oh there is so much more , duel no contact orders , jail for her more for me, stolen cars, doors getting kicked in, dog getting tazzer by cops, swat team, hospital, crooked lawyers nad bias judges . I have been screwed, All in all 54 days in jail for total 11 violations of which five I did. I am this close to going postal. My wife however told a friend of mine the other day that she has always loved me and will always, she never believed things would get so out of hand. She left because she didn’t feel I would ever change the way I had become. Sadly she is against a wall and so many people and family have been there supporting her. She said what know. She is a strong woman she would go without before she goes against her mother. The mother in law the reason it is what it is. I don’t understand

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How do you stop your ex-boyfriend from saying he'll kill himself?

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He and I broke up 5 month ago. But he E-mails me and says that he loves me. He apparently was saving me a whole bunch of money to get me a ring. But I had too remind him that we broke up and now he’s saying he wants to kill himself.
Thing is he and i don’t have anything in common anymore. He lives down in Cal. I live in OR. My bff dated him before. He said the same thing to her, She literally gave him something and he wossed out.

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Poor Bobo : Lawyers, Guns & Money

How much should you take to save a relationship?

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I work out of my living area and only can fly back once or twice a month. My wife is meeting new people, says she is working, but never has any money for bills. Maybe my imagination but she seems concerned when I tell her the dates I am flying back. Should I hire a PI to resolve my concerns?
I have discussed this with her but she says its my imagination.

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Getting your ex back without being the other woman, is it possible?

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Can anyone here please clue me in on how you can get an ex boyfriend back, even if he’s seeing a new girl but without making myself the other woman? I’ve been fumbling around with deciding if I should get my ex back or not lately and haven’t made up my mind yet. Before things got serious, he left me for another girl so it’s not like it was cheating although I still don’t like it anyways. Now that I have my license, I can see him much more now since I can drive (he lives 80 miles away so seeing him that often wasn’t possible). Can someone please explain what i should do if he texts or calls me and the no contact rule too? Is it even possible to do this? Because I don’t want to be the other woman but at the same time, I’d like to steal him back.

-God Bless,
Jacqueline!
I don’t plan on stalking him, trust me I don’t have the time or money to waste on him like that.
He said that he wanted someone more intellectually and physically more challenging for him. Well, I’ve made those changes since we last spoke but mainly for my own self esteem and not him. Plus, like I said i’m not sure if getting him back is really what I want. Not only that, but if he wants to be with me, isn’t he going to have to change himself too?

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How do you get your co-workers to stop bitchin' about their private lives-bipolar disorder, periods, divorce?

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Insomnia, men not paying for dental hygiene for their kids, no vacation time off, cleaning, need to use pot and cocaine, drug addiction, land rights for Natives, and other shit?
Believe me, it is not because I am not willing to listen once in a while and do not judge or hate them. I am just busy with customers, a hot buffet to take out, tables to clean and set, food prep, dishes, the floor, the till and other stuff. It is a distraction and still, when they could be filling up the salad, getting plates, answering the phone, seating people and clearing tables, they are standing there chatting. I wouldn’t mind if I clear their tables and do their phone calls and till, if they would just wipe down the buffet and take out some pans of food.
Yes, it is difficult listening to it. It is not in moderation. If it’s slow, I might listen. One co-worker, Sunny, complains moderately. I don’t mind hearing about this or that concern. The other stuff must be dealt with directly with the people involved. The husband/divorce stuff I figure she should go to him about the money or go to court. What am I supposed to do? Drugs are not my idea and if you can’t sleep, I suggest a herbal tea, go see a specialist or go for a walk before sleeping. I can’t fix this stuff and Native land rights, well, I don’t run the government, now do I?

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am i the best …………………..?

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man u can get….
i have got everything- money …nice face…nice body…nice house…..nice butler….nice exgf….nice car
is there anyone who is compatible to me.
its great to be batman…..

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I lied cheated on a beautiful dreamgirl, she gave 2nd chance, why am I screwing up ?

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I cant really defend myself.
I had the most wonderful sweet perfect gf for nearly 5 months.
But I needed a loan to keep my whole business alive.
I have a son to support
I decided to keep seeing my older rich ex gf in hopes she would lend me money
she did but unfortunately my dreamgirl gf found out
and worse i lied to her about seeing my ex and she was too smart for it
so she broke up with me
but then week later said she loved me and believed in forgiveness.
so we started slowly talking again. 2 weeks wnet by and my business is now doing amazing. if i hadnt had the loan from my exgf i would be under water.
i also ran into another girl i used to date long ago.
at the same time my exgf said she wanted to try again and believed in me.
so here it is a month later and i told my exgf i wanted to see her this weekend to talk and go out together.
she agreed
i told her i would call her friday
i didnt.
i ran into my exgf from long ago and it felt fated.
so we went out tonight and it was okay.
but not fireworks.
now my exgf texted me and sent me an email
she said simply that she thought i said i wanted to see her this weekend and that she is confused and hurt and cancelled out of town plans for memorial day because she thought it was more important to see me and missed me.
she said she is sad and feels like giving up on trying.

did i screw up by telling her i would see her this weekend and not calling her yesterday ??

we still have Sunday.

why is she so upset now ?

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Am I wrong to take HER to court?

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I got my exgf pregnant and treated her very bad afterwards, I broke up with her then began a new relationship. I ended up getting involved with her neighbors daughter and married her, now my wife is pregnant with my child. My child’s mother put up with all my BS for the sake of our son, I would hardly give her any money and gave her a very hard time about everything she did. I eventually crossed the line and the police got involved, I have no issue with saying it was all my fault. She is a great mother and has turned her life around, I like to think my tough love had something to do with it. I also have no job. She works for a major company and I hear that she is dating a stock broker. I am oddly bitter and jealous. I have not tried to contact her in 6 weeks and am consdering taking her to court so I can see my son. btw I did not sign the birth certifcate.

I probably sound like a real jerk, but I am who I am and I want to see my son. is it wrong to push a custody suit on her?

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saw my exgf last night… please help anyone?

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I went clubing with my friends today and i saw my ex. I am so mad at her behavior of how she went to see me with another guy like she was all that. The guy was holding her all night and can’t believe what i saw. I was just talking to her last night. this so pissed me off. After the club i called her then she told me to go home and not see her. I am still mad at the moment. This girl that i treated like a diamond and how i was there when her dad passed away two months ago through thick and thin. I gave her money so she wouldnt have to be in a financially troublesome situation since her dad isn’t going to be a provider for the family anymore. Im just so hurt by what she did. She asked my friends if they we single. i can’t sleep right now because of this crap. ugghh so painful. need this space to vent so i dont feel the hurt anymore. why are these exes like that that punish and hurt me so bad eventhough i was there for them. @#$%^&*was she trying to make me jealous? why?
i still luv her