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how to save a relationship with a friend?

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Last week I told a long time friend of mine that I felt we were growing a part, but not in a nice way really. I still want to be friends with them, but I’m not really sure what steps I need to make to salvage this relationship. They’re definitely mad at me, for not being nice, but I care about them and I don’t want to lose them. Any tips?

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what are the chances of an alcoholic stopping drinking in order to save their relationship?

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My girlfriend drinks a 5th of vodka everyday and it is ruining our relationship. I really care about her but I have to stand my ground to save my own sanity

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What to do to get your ex boyfriend back?? 10 points to the best answer!?

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Well me and my Ex broke up 3 months ago because I felt like we argued too much but we have been on and off for 2 years now and now i want to get back with him but i just dont know how you can compare our relationship to katy perry’s song Hot N’ Cold except switch the roles im the one always changing my mind and he’s the sure one how can i fix this so we can get back together and stay that way?

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Does the 'Reverse Rejection' Tactic work to win back an ex… really?

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Okay so someone sent me an ebook to read… about how to win back an ex. It describes how everyone in the face of being dumped, automatically do ‘expected’ things because of the hurt and rejection. These turn out to be the opposite of what people should do… Instead of feeling hurt and trying to show their ex that they care and are hurting, they should instead stop all contact with them immediately (for at least 3-4 weeks) – this is because the negative aspects of the relationship will have been forgotten and then the ‘missing’ kicks in as they remember the good things. It says not to contact them under any circumstances before 3-4 weeks. If they contact you its ok. The whole idea about this book is that you can reverse the rejection so that they feel it instead. And something to do with push vs pull. If you wallow after a breakup it pushes them further away but if you reject the dumper, then they are supposed to try and pull you back?? Especially if they see you moving on with your life and possibly dating others (it says delete their number and all contact info except for Facebook or MSN because you can use those to put status updates that your ex will see that can help – nothing trashy that would make you look like a slut but things like "Out with So and So tonight be back later" )

Anyway, does this tactic work at all? Any better than trying to maintain contact?

I was with a guy who was very shy and things went well until recently, then he became distant and finally decided to leave. He still wanted to be friends but I knew that would be too difficult so I said no. Now, I *think* that he maybe got scared or that since he was shy I might have pushed things a bit too fast… but at first HE did the chasing!! All of it!! So if I try this tatcic will it reverse everything so he might do the chasing again? I am a bit leery of trying the reverse of everything my heart is telling me to do! It’s very hard to stop all contact!! But I dont want to be his friend… I want to be more!

I know that there is no 100% guarantee but just wondering if this tactic works better than what most people do (showing they are hurt, trying to make the ex feel guilty, etc)??? Guys in particular??

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Should I become a vegetarian to save our relationship?

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We’ve been together for 3+ years. He was a vegetarian when we first met. He now says that its a deal breaker if I don’t become a vegetarian. It is a moral issue for him. I respect his views but I do not have the same degree of attraction/commitment to this issue. I want the relationship to work but find myself resenting his "mandate." Should I fake it to keep the relationship going?

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good ways to get your ex girlfriend back, after the no contact phase?

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What are some effective ways or strategies of getting your ex girlfriend to reconsider the relationship she chose to end when she broke it off?
I know the no contact phase is important, but a good strategy of getting her back after that say 4 weeks of no contact since the breakup?

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shood i be in touch with ma EXgf ( Genuine lovers please)?

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its been some time we broke up. i really hate her for all she had done for me. shes in a relationship n im also da same. But i still love her.
shood i be in touch wiht her or forget her for good.

any friends can mail me for more helping ideas PLS.
its hurts I dont know y??

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how to get your ex back?

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it’s been 7 months since my ex broke up with me (he said he "just wasn’t feeling it anymore"and that he just didn’t want a relationship at that time) and i’m still not completely over him. we haven’t talked at all these past 7 months. i think i want to try and get back together with him, also i know that he’s still single and he hasn’t dated anyone since we broke up. i’ve done a lot of self work, i’ve lost 70 lbs and dyed my hair blonde (i look the best i’ve ever looked) and i’ve been seeing a therapist for months now, so i consider myself emotionally stable. how should i go about contacting my ex? should i stage a "bump into" or should i just call him up and ask him to get together (that seems a bit forward and out of the blue)? what do you guys think? he also said that he couldn’t deal with me being sad all the time. but thanks to therapy, i’ve dealt with those issues and no longer battle depression. how can i make this evident to him?

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How do you know when it is too late to save a relationship and you should break up?

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All we do is argue now. We seem to have lost all respect for each other and the love we show is not the same as it once was when we first met. It is like at this moment, it is a burden for each of us to hang on to this, and yet, when we think of moving on, we can’t stand to not have each other in our lives. How do you know when it’s just better to move on, or stay and mend it the relationship?

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Self improvement and space can it get your ex back?

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I will be seeing my ex this week, which we have done a couple of times since our break 2 months ago.We were together nearly 3 years.After our meet I am going to not contact her for 1 month unless she calls me & in that month I am going to work hard on self improvement which I have already began to do and I have a driving test booked &have a deposit on a car.
Do you think if I go at improving my life like crazy that I can draw back my ex to me so we can eventually get back into a relationship because she just wants to be friends?

When we were together we had a lot of pressure around us due to my mothers terminal illness which I handled well but just caused silly little arguements which were magnified.
So do you think I have a chance of her changing her mind if I don’t contact her for a while?Because even though we have been split for 2 months and only seen each other twice I have been in contact with her for every one of the weeks, so I don’t think I have given her a chancetomissme
I am also going for councilling to sort out silly things I have noticed about myself that I don’t like, so when I say self improvement I mean, mentally, physically and in my life style.