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What happens when you have 16Litres of Pepsi Max in 4days?

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I just did that and I’m really sleepy, lol. All I want to do is sleep, Saturday I was having laughing fits with my exgf and sleeping on the train to her place and back.

Yesterday I was being totally random and not really knowing what i was doing and was really sleepy.

And today I’m still really sleepy and I’m drinking more Pepsi Max and it’s making me more sleepy.

Is this normal?

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How to get your ex-boyfriend back? When you broke up with him because i was not strong enough to realizedl?

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I was not strong enough to relized he did love me and i was falling in my ex-husband trap to make me be under his control. my Exboyfriend knows i love him and he said he loves me. I can’t eat nor sleep because he on my mind. We are still friends(best friend) i appolize and beg him. but i don’t know what elsa to do. i just know that i want him. I relized that i don’t need him. He wants me to stand on my own to feet to quite letting everyone controll me. He treat me like I somebody. He the first I ever want to fight for. what can i do?

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How do I get the love of my life back?

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My ex boyfriend and I were together for 4 years and had decided to get married. However, things with his life got so busy – he was in college full time, starting two businesses, and holding a part-time job on the side. He was never around, and would be home maybe a few hours at night to sleep. He’d promise to spend time with me, go to dinner, etc and it wouldn’t happen.

I on the other hand, had just graduated college and felt like my life was turned upside down. I couldn’t find a good job and i’d been offered an opportunity to move abroad and work, travel, and become fluent in my second language. I finally couldn’t take feeling torn anymore and made a rash decision, leaving my boyfriend, even though I loved him so much, to focus on me and do what I wanted to do.

I was an idiot and got into a 5-monthish rebound relationship while abroad. The guy was wrong for me and I didn’t feel all that strongly about him, so I broke it off. I also never stopped loving my ex, I was dreaming about him, and everything – my new boyfriend, my job, my life – just made it all the more clear that I wasn’t happy and I wanted to be back. I came back home two weeks ago and have sene my ex a few times since then. The first night he was flirty, touching me a bit, talking to me a lot, but since then he doesn’t talk to me much. A mutual friend told me my ex is really upset that I dated someone else while we were apart.

I would do anything to be back with this man because he is the love of my life, and once you’ve been in a relationship with someone that makes you so happy, nothing else can compare. I’m willing to put in the work, make the sacrifices, do whatever is necessary to make it work and show him I’m serious about my feelings for him. But I don’t know how to show him this when he won’t talk to me! What do I do?

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Would you try to get your ex back?

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I was with my bf for over three years. He broke up with me last saturday and we haven’t had any type of contact since. I am trying to respect his wishes but i love him so incrediably much i can’t eat, sleep, eat or function. Should I try to reach out to talk to him and let him know how i feel? or should i just leave it alone? if i should try to reach out to him should i see him in person, text him, email him?

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If you had a wife in Mexico, would you give up everything you own ,live in poverty, to make immigration happy?

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if you had worked hard for 20 years to get the good job you had, would you give it up to save your marriage? would you sell everything you had to live on for a short while and hope you could find a job in mexico? if you where faced with the fact that you may have to wait more than 3 years to be with your wife again how could you deal with this? im an american and have an approved –I-130-petition -and still must wait this long ,i feel they want to distroy as many marriages as possible, with no worry for what happens to the people involved, if you do it the correct way as everyone says you must, then you risk distroying your marriage, if this was your life what would you do or think about the problem at hand? remember the old saying out of site out of mind? is it fair to force people to grow apart for the sake of politics. my visits to american consulets in mexico proved to me that if you wish to immigrate you are a target of hait,, what would you do if this was your life?
some times i wish that i would go to sleep and never wake again, how is it that we spend a million to help other countrys but will not make the effort to solve small things like this for U.S. citizens.
yes i have been american since i was a baby.

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how to win ex girlfriend even she got a new boyfriend?

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hello my girlfriend finish with me because of jeaslousy and we been together for six years and am so heartbroken i know i need help with my jeaslousy i am willing to go get help and hopefully i win her love and feeling back for me but i got one problem she gone and met somebody else make it worst it somebody from her work and no matter what i do to try get her back it not working she said to until you get all the help i need who knows maybe in the near future we might get back together we got two lovely boys too she told me this bloke she with is that she doesnt want him to meet my kids not settle down not move him in and marry him but she said they love each other i keep baby sitting for her to go and sleep at his house and it killing me doing this i rather look after my kids than anybody else please anybody with advice to win her back before she get too serious with the other bloke thank for listening

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How to get over your ex boyfriend?

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Me and my ex has been together for 9 months and we just recently broke up 2 weeks ago. We spent so much time together that it felt like 3 years with each other. He was like my best friend, a best friend that I’ve lost. The first week was depressing, I didnt eat for 2 days straight and only had an hour of sleep. I talked to him on the phone and even tried to get him back but he said no. He broke up with me because he was having feelings for another girl and he couldnt feel the love for me anymore. We did argue a lot and cried a lot and didnt know how to solve our situation. We’re both seniors in high school and its the beginning of the year of a heartbreak. These past two weeks, I have been calling almost every night, trying to be friends with him, walk home together, and even cry in front of him while he gives me hugs. I dont know what to do now because its really depressing me not to be with him anymore. We shared so much memory together that now, its like we’re strangers and this really breaks my heart. I am still recovering but this saddens me so much to my depression mode. I cannot tell you how much I’ve cried these past two weeks. It really hurts me not to be with him anymore. Please help me get over this guy who I loved.
This was also our first love experience with each other…we were each others first boy/girl friend. It was fun while it lasted and hard at times. I dont know or think we’re ready. But I will never forget my first love and so will he. *sigh…time, please come faster. Please heal me fast, the wait is slowly killing me. Please come faster, time.

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How do you get your co-workers to stop bitchin' about their private lives-bipolar disorder, periods, divorce?

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Insomnia, men not paying for dental hygiene for their kids, no vacation time off, cleaning, need to use pot and cocaine, drug addiction, land rights for Natives, and other shit?
Believe me, it is not because I am not willing to listen once in a while and do not judge or hate them. I am just busy with customers, a hot buffet to take out, tables to clean and set, food prep, dishes, the floor, the till and other stuff. It is a distraction and still, when they could be filling up the salad, getting plates, answering the phone, seating people and clearing tables, they are standing there chatting. I wouldn’t mind if I clear their tables and do their phone calls and till, if they would just wipe down the buffet and take out some pans of food.
Yes, it is difficult listening to it. It is not in moderation. If it’s slow, I might listen. One co-worker, Sunny, complains moderately. I don’t mind hearing about this or that concern. The other stuff must be dealt with directly with the people involved. The husband/divorce stuff I figure she should go to him about the money or go to court. What am I supposed to do? Drugs are not my idea and if you can’t sleep, I suggest a herbal tea, go see a specialist or go for a walk before sleeping. I can’t fix this stuff and Native land rights, well, I don’t run the government, now do I?

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My girlfriend and I just recently started dating. We both just ended a relationship. She ended a year and a half relationship and i just ended a two years relationship. I worked in a hotel and she was a guest and i guess we just sort of flirted and started to go on dates. And she says she really likes me. and that i am amazing and all of these things. How i am better than her ex bf and stuff. She still does. She gets mad when i talk about my ex gf but my ex and i decided to not talk. But she still talks to her ex bf and he doesn’t even know about me. nor her parents.

We would go on dates and she would be texting him. And when my exgf text me once then she would get jealous. actually she gets really jealous when i talk to another girl.

But the problem that she had with her ex was that he had naked pictures of his ex gf. and lied to her many times about many different things. and they would get fights and he would hit her.

I broke up with my exgf because it was just difficult becuz shes indian and they are very cultured.

But i am a very patient guy. I allowed her to go see her exbf and sleep over and have him sleep over to talk things over. It was very uncomfortable for me. But in between there, I would go to her apartment and clean her dishes and kitchen just to help out. She gets stress a lot. I would also get her food and lunch when she has work. I also took her out on a dinner cruise in San Diego and that was fun. She had a bad day once and i decided to cheer her up by getting her pumpkins and flowers and cookies and a nice card. I would sleep over to make her not get scared when my parents are strict with those things.

But anyways everytime when we plan for me to come over. her ex bf came. I was fine for a while but this happened 3 weekends in a row. She didn’t cheat on me bcuz her roommate told me that they didn’t. She asked me to sleep over on a saturday night and as i was about to her ex boyfriend came to beg for her.

she told me that she wasn’t ready for a serious relationship, but we would be in a relationship just let time go by and decide what we would be.

She is busy everyday accept for sunday and monday. she has no school nor work on those days. I have work every weekend and school every monday and wednesday. The only i see her is after 9PM till 1PM. and when we do all we would do is help clean her room. Never go out and have fun. Just chill and relax.
Finally her ex bf doesn’t come this weekend. She told me to come over this weekend, to bring her an iron, and i told her that i need to pick up my clothes and she agreed. But when i was about to get off work, she was over at her parents house. Which was fine but at least she could tell me that she wasn’t going to make it.

I texted her that she was being disrespectful, and that she should at least say sorry or thank you or something. But all she would txt would be "ok". I told her how i felt. And she just said ," i told you i am not ready for a relationship."

my argument was that it had nothing to do with a relationship. it what a considerate person would do. Even a friend would tell each other that they wouldn’t be able to make it. Apologize and say thank you when someone does something for them. BUt she just says ,"ok". I am not the type of guy who gets mad. i give people chances. and i am very patient. I need people’s opinions and comments.

i feel very unappreciated, and used.

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I’ve known him for about 4 months and when we met we clicked instantly, he’s perfect, and loving. So when he finally asked me out I said yes because we were mad about eachother, and I’m still mad about him.. Everyone was congratulating us because it was obvious we liked eachother. He said all this lovely stuff like ‘you’re beautiful and the most amazing person’ and I was thrilled because it must have been hard for him because he hadn’t had a proper girlfriend before.. But then three days later I dumped him.. I know I shouldn’t have but iregret it so much. I did it because he said that we weren’t going to see eachother that often during the summer, so I ended it to avoid a broken heart. He pleaded afterwards to have me back but I didn’t listen.. I didn’t sleep at all that night apart from 2 or 3 hours because I was up all night crying and praying for him back. The next day I realised what an idiot I was and everyday since then I’ve been pleading for forgiveness because I’ve never wanted anything so much because I love him more than anything.. But he kept on saying ‘no because I don’t like being dumped’ and so I decided I was going to move on, but it didint work because I think about him 24/7. Since then he’s been changing his mind, like one minute he’d want me back then the next he’d just want us to be friends. He said that he doesn’t want to loose me completely because I’m ‘amazing’ and so he said we can still see eachother next Wednesday so I said yeah sure, but then yesterday he sent me an IM saying ‘errr sorry but, can we reschedule next week?’ because he wanted to go out with his friends.. So I said ‘well I’m busy all next week’ so i’ve decided I won’t see him. Before that though my friend Matti (a boy) spoke to him and said how do you feel about her? And he said he doesn’t feel the same. So I was really upset. Also next Thursday he’s going ice skating with a girl he’s only ever seen once.. and he says he only likes her as a friend.. but I just want him to regret ever loosing me and I want him back what should I do? We’re ages 15+16.. Thank you (L)