Would you want to save your marriage if your wife cheated on you?
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I have a friend of mine at my job, that’s going through a really hard time. His wife cheated on him, and he keeps going on and on about "saving his marriage," and I just don’t understand it!
Mind you, I have never been married, and I don’t have any kids yet, but if MY wife cheated on me… ESPECIALLY in the manner that it happened to him… I would NEVER even consider trying to "save my marriage," to me… that’s like trying to unscramble eggs. Its done, plain and simple.
Just to highlight for the moment… the sheer insanity of my colleague’s personal "save the marriage" campaign… Let me tell you HOW his wife’s indiscretions went down.
Basically, he and his wife went on vacation in the bahamas. They went on a fishing boat, and one of the young (22 year old), black, attendees on the ship took a liking to her, and the feeling evidently was mutual.The guy was tall, dark, muscular, and good looking, and while they were out fishing, he tells me that he caught his wife shamelessly flirting, and outright fawning over the young Bahamian man. She walked off complaining of "sea sickness" to go down into the cabin area to continue drooling over the much younger Bahamian guy. Later, when he questioned her about it… she downplayed the whole issue, called him a jealous idiot, and made the whole ordeal sound like a case of harmless healthy flirting. And, he believed her.
He and she are both your classic white suburbanites. He’s 39, and she’s 32… they’re both attractive successful people. But, he really looks his age, he’s not very tall, and has a small thin build. She looks younger than her age, and she’s tall, blonde, and beautiful. And, he’s crazy about her, and I ‘thought’ she really loved him too!
SO… then, eight weeks AFTER their vacation, he receives a package in the mail. It was a dvd. When he popped the dvd in, and watched it… It was a video of his naked drunk wife, being "extremely" intimate with three large young Bahamian men, including the young man from the fishing trip… who in the video are taking turns with his wife, while they repeatedly mock him, and his physical/sexual prowess. And, of course had the audacity to record it, and send it to him!
He claims his wife was genuinely sorry, that she didn’t know she was being recorded, and doesn’t know how they knew their address. My response was WHO CARES how sorry she was!?!?!?!
She blames the alcohol, the feeling that she’s getting old, and a moment of weakness (BS). I say there is a five letter word that explains her just fine, and it starts with a "W" and is followed by an "H" an "O" "R" and ends with "E."
The desire to "save" THAT marriage is TOTALLY incomprehensible to me! I have tried to reason with him, and he knows exactly where I stand on this, but he’s going to take her back… and, it sickens me to know that! But, of course its his life, his "wife," and his marriage, and I can only do so much.
He has been totally faithful to her, and they’ve been married six years, and have two little girls. He insists that he’s not just trying to stay together for the kids, but I think he’s really crazy!!! I mean when this thing first hit… he was at my house drowning in beer, and as far as I’m concerned she’s a dirty W****, and she’ll have him drowning in beer again and again.
SO my QUESTION is… AM I THE CRAZY ONE???
OR, is my friend the crazy naive fool that I think he is???
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS, COMMENTS, AND OPINIONS???
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Clearly, she only married him for his resources and security. Obviously, she has no real desire for him as her husband or even as a man, in general. Once she found a man that she felt was attractive, then she jumped at the chance to nab him. She displayed her utter lack of respect when she flirted with the guy right in front of her husband. And when he complained about her behavior, then she denied it and called him, "a jealous idiot!", as well (instead of reassuring him).
Also, while she was "servicing" the THREE (unwise) men in the video, the wife listened as they continuously mocked him and his physical/ sexual prowess yet she was in total agreement with their actions (obviously) and enjoyed the entire gang bang (probably because she told them about her husband’s shortcomings before the filming began).
His wife isn’t remorseful for her actions at all (actually she’s very proud of them and most likely can’t wait to do it again). Her husband simply witnessed a possible "breeding party" for his wife so he could expect an interracial child coming soon from her. Your friend is a complete idiot for trying to save an already dead marriage.
I’m a woman but if your story is true I can’t see why your friend is trying to save that marriage. Yech. Has he been screened for STDs?
P.S. Ethnicities have no part in this story imo. So what if she and her husband are white and the men she cheated with are black? Would the situation seem any better if she slept with three strange white men? No…
She’s a ho he should let her go there’s many beautiful,good hearted,faithful woman.
Women love guys like him because they can clean their wallets, cheat, and still get away with it. Who knows how many younger men she is supporting with her husband’s money? Sounds like a typical gold-digger to me. Your friend needs to grow up and be a man. If he’s that desperate for a woman, he can find himself another escort to love.